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Getting women is on every healthy guy’s mind.
Doesn’t matter the age or race or status, when it comes to getting beautiful women, all guys want to know how it’s done right.
There are literally tons of attract women books written about the subject you can find in any decent book store or online shop.
You can even learn it on your own using trial and error and by watching what other guys who are good with women are doing.
Though the goal remains the same, there isn’t just one way of getting there.
But you do have to act and do something if you want to get women. You may get tired, and you may begin to sweat and get nervous.
But carry on my friend, carry on.
If want to get women, you got to make the first move. And to make the first move, you have to be confident in your ability to make the woman like you for who you are, using your conversation skills you’ve mastered through social interactions.
Let her talk about herself, and let her tell you how to get her. If she’s interested, she’ll help you and she’ll make it easier for you to get her.
Realize That It’s A (Mating) Game
But it’s not a competition between the two of you.
It’s more like a dance where you move with her and try to lead her with every step. You have to be good at it so you don’t step on her foot and ruin your chances of taking things further.
Or just get her contacts and continue some other time — sooner, I hope.
Whatever the case, the steps to getting women remains the same.
Call her or text her, and take her out on a date. Continue where you left off, bringing her closer and closer to you until the connection you’ve built with her is solid and strong enough for the next stage — you already know what that is, don’t you?
That’s how you get women. (Or at least one of the roads to get women.)
The way may have some bumps or slopes that goes up and down. It may come easy for some and tumultuous for others.
One thing is for certain, you have to move your feet and get moving as you learn the ways to get beautiful women.
And when you own the skills, you can attract women whenever you like.
What Draws A Girl To You
As you know, there are certain the traits and behaviors that can make you more appealing to girls.
Knowing these, you’ll have to make some changes to step up your game.
But before we get to that, it’s important that you know when your charms are starting to draw her in already.
According to this women apparently flirt with the same sequence of expressions, no matter where they’re from.
First the woman smiles at her admirer and lifts her eyebrows in a swift, jerky motion as she opens her eyes wide to gaze at him. Then she drops her eyelids, tilts her head down and to the side, and looks away. Frequently she also covers her face with her hands, giggling nervously as she retreats behind her palms. This sequential flirting gesture is so distinctive that [German ethologist Irenaus] Eibl-Eibesfeldt was convinced it is innate, a human female courtship ploy that evolved eons ago to signal sexual interest.
And that’s just one of the more obvious signs of attraction from women. There are many more and you can’t be basing your decision on just this one.
Now, if you want to get girls almost every time you get the chance, the following tips will make things a lot less complicated.
In general, women are attracted to healthy, strong, and physically fit men who project confidence who are more likely to survive and prosper in society.
They will mostly avoid unemployed drunks.
Additionally, physical attractiveness is critical in first impressions and early in a relationship.
That’s why some women who are interested in short term flings will choose someone who is above average in physical appeal than a guy who is bald, short, and has noticeably big stomach.
Be Seen As High Status
There’s a reason why men pictured in a luxury apartment, with an expensive car, are rated more attractive than the average dude. It’s because they’re perceived as high status. And high status men get girls. (1)
Other signs of high social status women are attracted to include elite diction, dining at post restaurant, and having disposable income that you’re generous enough to pay for the date.
Build Just Enough Muscles
Research shows that women are likely to want short-term relationships with guys with big muscles. Less muscular men, on the other hand, are thought to be a better fit for long-term relationships. (2)
If you don’t know where to start, I suggest you see this page. It will tell you how to build your most attractive body, no matter your age or starting point.
Make Her Laugh
It’s no surprise. Women are more attracted to men who can make them laugh. Numerous studies have proven this already. (3)
Sometimes the things that can make you appear more attractive are obvious, other times it’s not.
Like how women are drawn to someone who is from similar background or men who are as attractive as they are. On the other hand, it might be a surprise to know that financially independent women tend like older guys more.
There are also small tweaks you can to make you more attractive to women, backed by science. For example…
- Grow some facial hair so you look more mature and masculine.
- You’ll be as seen as more attractive if you wear red.
- Own a pet to show you’re capable of making long-term commitments.
- For a quick confidence boost and feel more attractive, use a scented spray.
- Display expansive body language and pride, even in your photos
See how simple these are that you can try them out as soon as this week?
Getting Women To Fall For You
To get a girl to like you, you’ll need to understand some attraction skills that you can get good at through practice.
It’s even more easy to get girls when you have good things going on in your life.
When you have an amazing life that a woman will subconsciously want to be around you more, you can make her fall for you and make her want to be your girlfriend.
Even just having a hobby you’re passionate about can make a difference in making you more attractive.
And as I said before, get her laughing. Even if you don’t think you’re funny, the more you try, the better you’ll get. What’s more, the more you can make girls laugh, the higher your status will be in her eyes.
You also want to be able touching her in a nonsexual way. Touching her shoulder or arm let her knows that you’re comfortable around her.
Confidence here is even more important. If you want to be more attractive to any girl, be more confident about your thoughts and actions.
Show that you don’t worry about what other people think or that you’re not easily offended. See this guide on how you can become a bit more shameless.
If you want her to trust you, show that you trust her. This will allow her to reciprocate and trust you more. For example, tell her something personal that very few people know.
And if you can tell something that’s a bit embarrassing, this also shows you’re willing to be vulnerable with her — a highly attractive quality.
A bit of listening can make her feel special. She’ll then start to enjoy being with you.
That is if you can remember some of the important details she mentions while she talks and and subtly let her know that you remember later.
It shows you’re paying attention to her which you can use to relate to and understand her in a more emotional level as you make her fall for you.
Start by highlighting things you have in common with her to take advantage of the similarity effect. It can be as trivial as a favorite color. As you know, she is more likely to like someone similar to her.
Get her invested and ask her to do things for you and she’ll subconsciously like you a bit more. That’s the consistency bias in action. Small errands, small favors, nothing huge.
Then, to get her to fall for you, invest some of your time and emotions as well. Give her some of your time, buy her some things that will make her smile, and be okay sharing some of your feelings with her.
Of course, don’t forget the power of eye contact, teasing, and attractive body language any time your with her.
Getting a girl is doesn’t have to be something complicated like rocket science. Making a girl like you starts with making yourself likable before you start using any seduction technique.