When you approach a girl, she’ll sometimes drop the “I have a boyfriend!” line. It may or may not be true. And it depends on how you read the situation if you can proceed and persist on attracting and moving forward with her.
When she says she has a boyfriend, it doesn’t necessarily mean she doesn’t want to talk to you. Sometimes it’s a form of a test, to see if you can and know how handle her little objection — if you know how to attract women.
It also makes her look like she’s desirable and popular with the guys. Or she just wants to feel good about herself just by saying it.And sometimes, she just automatically says it (for no particular reason at all) to every guy who approaches her.
Either way, you don’t need to be discouraged when she drops the I-have-a-boyfriend line. If she really has a boyfriend, you’ll know sooner or later by how she acts in front of you.
So what do you do?
Well, don’t react to what she says, particularly to the boyfriend word. You can either just ignore it and continue the conversation as if she didn’t say it or you didn’t hear it. It shows that you know something about women and that you’ve heard it before and know what to do.
If you can’t figure out if she really has a boyfriend or not, don’t worry about it. Just wait it out and soon it will become obvious. But if she brings it up again or mentions him directly or by name, you know the deal. You have to acknowledge it and take what you can.
And, even if it’s true, you can still move things along with a girl if she wants to.
Sometimes the boyfriend thing is not serious or she’s looking for someone else to replace him with a better boyfriend — which could be you.
It’s all up to you what you want to do. Just know that there are a lot of single women out there. And you may just be wasting your time with this one who has a “boyfriend”.