Always having to text her first can feel frustrating. Every time you hit send to start a conversation, you start to wonder: If I stopped texting, would the conversation just… end?
That feeling sucks. It stings when you’re the only one making an effort. You just want to know if she cares as much as you do.
Although it’s frustrating, you don’t have to assume the worst.
Richard La Ruina’s The Natural Art of Seduction emphasizes mastering the hardest skill: the cold approach.
Why?
Because La Ruina believes it’s better to be able to meet any woman who interests you, rather than relying on luck, convenience, or your existing social circle.
Quick question: Would you like to have “a life filled with beautiful women, incredible relationships, and… lots of sex?”
That’s Richard La Ruina’s promise on The Natural: How to Effortlessly Attract the Women You Want.
He claims that if he could go from being a “natural-born loser” and a virgin until twenty-one to becoming a famous seducer, then you can do the same.
If you can carry on a conversation, you can get a girl.
Do you know why a ‘no’ from a girl can feel like getting hit in the gut?
Most pain serves as a warning to avoid repeating a behavior. Pain from touching molten iron or eating rotten food teaches us to avoid these dangerous things.
But why is there emotional pain from being rejected?
How can rejection—something so many men dread—possibly make you attractive?
Hard to believe, right? It seems impossible. Preposterous. Absurd.
How can you suggest something like that?
That’s like saying falling flat on your face in front of everyone—including the girl you like—will somehow make you more popular.
And yet, there’s real truth to it.
Let me explain.
Ever find yourself waiting for a text that never comes? Or waiting for someone to change their mind?
Fun, isn’t it?
Hanging on to false hope only drags out the pain. Facing reality sooner is the kindest thing you can do for yourself.
Seems kinda obvious, but when you’re in the midst of things, it’s not that simple.