Most guys waste months on women who aren’t ~ because they’re scared of being wrong.
They make excuses. They rationalize. They see red flags and paint them different colors. They stretch out the uncertainty of “maybe” because as long as they’re uncertain, they’re not rejected.
When someone shows you a one-way street, believe the sign. Don’t drive down it hoping the rules will change for you.
Women rarely reject men directly because being blunt can create uncomfortable tension that most people want to avoid. I mean, who wants to make things awkward, right?
So for many, it’s easier to be indirect and hope the other person gets the hint. But here’s the problem: this can lead to more confusion and pain in the long run. Let’s see what’s going on.
You’ve been texting her for two weeks.
She seems interested. You’re not completely confused whether she likes you or not. But… you’re not completely sure, either.
Is her interest real, or what?
There’s one reliable way to know if her attraction is real. And it’s simpler than you think.
Chasing women can be addictive.
We’ve all been there. Three in the morning. Staring at your phone. Wondering if you should text her again.
Checking if she’s online. Having that sick feeling when you see she read your message an hour ago… but hasn’t replied.
It’s a bad habit.
You know you should break it. You know you should stop chasing her.
And yet somehow… you can’t help yourself. You keep chasing her, analyzing her texts, planning the perfect thing to say, adjusting your schedule around hers.
Meanwhile, she’s barely thinking about you at all.
Do you want to attract a woman, but often end up pursuing her instead?
Many men fall into the trap of chasing women. They think if they try hard enough, text more, compliment more, or pursue aggressively, they can “convince” women to like them — to fall for them.
But does it work?
No. In fact, chasing women does not create attraction; it kills it.
Do you like having dull conversations with women?
I’m guessing you don’t. And you want to avoid having boring conversations with anyone as much as you can.
As you know, dull conversations are forgettable or even tedious. It’s uninteresting and uninspired. It’s small talk without any meaningful connection. All grey and no color. Who wants that?
Thus, to not bore you, let us start right away.
When a conversation with girls feels boring, monotonous, or uninteresting, what’s missing?