You’ve been texting her for two weeks.
She seems interested. You’re not completely confused whether she likes you or not. But… you’re not completely sure, either.
Is her interest real, or what?
There’s one reliable way to know if her attraction is real. And it’s simpler than you think.
Chasing women can be addictive.
We’ve all been there. Three in the morning. Staring at your phone. Wondering if you should text her again.
Checking if she’s online. Having that sick feeling when you see she read your message an hour ago… but hasn’t replied.
It’s a bad habit.
You know you should break it. You know you should stop chasing her.
And yet somehow… you can’t help yourself. You keep chasing her, analyzing her texts, planning the perfect thing to say, adjusting your schedule around hers.
Meanwhile, she’s barely thinking about you at all.
Do you want to attract a woman, but often end up pursuing her instead?
Many men fall into the trap of chasing women. They think if they try hard enough, text more, compliment more, or pursue aggressively, they can “convince” women to like them — to fall for them.
But does it work?
No. In fact, chasing women does not create attraction; it kills it.
Do you like having dull conversations with women?
I’m guessing you don’t. And you want to avoid having boring conversations with anyone as much as you can.
As you know, dull conversations are forgettable or even tedious. It’s uninteresting and uninspired. It’s small talk without any meaningful connection. All grey and no color. Who wants that?
Thus, to not bore you, let us start right away.
When a conversation with girls feels boring, monotonous, or uninteresting, what’s missing?
Are you bad at talking to women?
When you talk to a woman, does she find you interesting?
Do you excite her curiosity, arouse a feeling of interest, or attract her attention?
Or does she find you as interesting as a wet tax form on a rainy day?
If you want to attract a girl, you want to become more interesting. So interesting you magnetize attention. You spark a woman’s curiosity and intrigue.
You don’t want to be like most guys: boring and barely leaves any impression on women.