Do you know why a ‘no’ from a girl can feel like getting hit in the gut?
Most pain serves as a warning to avoid repeating a behavior. Pain from touching molten iron or eating rotten food teaches us to avoid these dangerous things.
But why is there emotional pain from being rejected?
How can rejection—something so many men dread—possibly make you attractive?
Hard to believe, right? It seems impossible. Preposterous. Absurd.
How can you suggest something like that?
That’s like saying falling flat on your face in front of everyone—including the girl you like—will somehow make you more popular.
And yet, there’s real truth to it.
Let me explain.
Do you want to attract a woman, but often end up pursuing her instead?
Many men fall into the trap of chasing women. They think if they try hard enough, text more, compliment more, or pursue aggressively, they can “convince” women to like them — to fall for them.
But does it work?
No. In fact, chasing women does not create attraction; it kills it.
Even if every girl on the planet rejects you, know this: getting rejected is better than fearing rejection.
What are the mistakes that could be keeping you single?
What’s holding you back from having a great relationship with a girl?
Do you keep wondering why you’re spending Christmas, New Year, Valentine’s, and your birthday single?
You’re still single, but you can’t put your finger on why.
Here are some of the things that keep you single, knowingly, or unknowingly.
When you meet a gorgeous woman, you want to impress her right?
You want to make her like you, to laugh at your jokes. So you give her your complete attention and hang on to every word she says.