Do you want to attract a woman, but often end up pursuing her instead?
Many men fall into the trap of chasing women. They think if they try hard enough, text more, compliment more, or pursue aggressively, they can “convince” women to like them — to fall for them.
But does it work?
No. In fact, chasing women does not create attraction; it kills it.
Do you like having dull conversations with women?
I’m guessing you don’t. And you want to avoid having boring conversations with anyone as much as you can.
As you know, dull conversations are forgettable or even tedious. It’s uninteresting and uninspired. It’s small talk without any meaningful connection. All grey and no color. Who wants that?
Thus, to not bore you, let us start right away.
When a conversation with girls feels boring, monotonous, or uninteresting, what’s missing?
Are you bad at talking to women?
When you talk to a woman, does she find you interesting?
Do you excite her curiosity, arouse a feeling of interest, or attract her attention?
Or does she find you as interesting as a wet tax form on a rainy day?
If you want to attract a girl, you want to become more interesting. So interesting you magnetize attention. You spark a woman’s curiosity and intrigue.
You don’t want to be like most guys: boring and barely leaves any impression on women.
If you want to subtly flirt over text with a girl, focus on keeping the vibe light and playful.
And you want to maintain that atmosphere while maintaining a degree of ambiguity.
If you want to start a romantic relationship with a woman, she has to be attracted to you. Why?
Because you need attraction to set a spark that ignites a burning passion within her.
So you don’t want to inadvertently kill that attraction before that burning passion ignites.