Confidence is attractive. You already know you need to be confident to attract women. And to be successful at anything in life.
If every time you talk to a woman you like, you get cold sweats, stutter, or fall apart, you have to improve your confidence.
On the contrary, imagine what a confident man looks like. What can he do with that confidence? What’s he able to achieve? Now, put yourself in that man’s shoes. How would you feel?
By the time you’re through reading this, you should have an idea on how to be confident around women. You won’t get nervous around them. And you’ll be able to approach a random girl anywhere.
Here’s how you can…
Improve your self-confidence
Before you can be confident around women, you need to see yourself worthy. Why? Because that’s where confidence comes from. It’s how you see yourself. It’s how you believe yourself to be. And this is picked up by all the people around you especially women. It shows in how you talk, how you walk, and how you move.
Here’s a few things you can do to improve your self confidence.
Remember the things you’re good at. What are you good at? Your strong points? List all of them. Read it every morning or when you don’t feel confident.
Think about your past successes. Did you win, got an award, or felt good or proud about something you’ve done? Remember that feeling.
Embrace your passion. Engage in activities where you can lose yourself. Doing what you love to do will boost your self esteem.
Improve how you look. If you know you look good, you can’t help but feel good about it. Obviously, you should dress well. Wear something clean all the time. Do some exercises or go to a gym. This will improve a lot of things. You’ll have more energy, you’ll improve your posture, and you’ll feel more confident. You don’t have time? Make time. No excuses.
If you’ve improved your self-confidence, women will naturally see that.
Now, here’s a plan to get you comfortable around women…
Building your confidence around women
The trick is to take small steps. What’s important is you progress to the next level. Do this daily if you can. Start with what you’re not comfortable doing.
You can add the next one to what you did before. For example, if you can hold eye contact then the next time you’ll hold eye contact then smile. And so on…
- Hold eye contact.
- Say ‘Hi’.
- Start a conversation. Give a compliment or Ask a question.
- Make your conversation longer.
Once you’re able to start conversations normally, challenge yourself more. Ask for a date or take the conversation to a different level. Be creative.
If you have a lot of female friends, it’ll help if you hang with them. Why? So that you’ll get used to being around women.
Most guys can’t talk to girls because they think she won’t like him. If this is the case with you, you should change your perspective. Remember you are the man. You do the choosing. You’re talking to her to find out if she’s cool. Not the other way around.
And don’t focus on your failures. Instead, focus on your next target.
Keep building your confidence
You’ll notice that this can take a while. Well, there’s no way around it. There’s no quick fix to building confidence. It takes time and practice.
It also helps to be positive, so try to be positive most of the time. Affirmations work on some people but not on others. Try it for yourself. And see if it helps you.
Don’t be over-confident. Lack of confidence is bad but over confidence is worse. Be mindful of your actions and know your limit.
Remember, confidence is just a matter of having that unshakeable belief in yourself.
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