There’s a popular phrase saying, “nice guys finish last”. Well, if you consider yourself a nice guy and still want to get girls, then keep reading.

Do you keep waiting for girls to give you want you want?

Do all kinds of things for them but in the end, you end up with less than what you’re hoping for. You don’t get the girl even though you did everything for her.

Well, that’s the problem right there.

If you’re romantically or sexually interested in a woman, you don’t need to do stuffs for her if you don’t show any interest in her. And if she’s not showing any interest in you. The act doing stuff for her is fine once you’ve established your desired relationship, and I don’t mean being her friend.

Don’t pretend to be what you’re not. If your intention is not to be her friend, show it in how you deal with her. You don’t have to hide who you really are to make a girl like you.

You don’t have to be a jerk, either, if you’re a sensitive, caring, and kind guy. Women don’t actually like jerks for being a jerk. They like them for being confident enough to do what they want.

And they stay true to their personality.

So be confident on who you are and the kind of guy you are. Don’t hide your interests and intentions, instead follow your manly drive. Make her feel good being with you as you learn more about her.

Don’t be afraid to be forceful at times to test the waters. You don’t always have to be overly nice if the situation don’t call for it. There are times when you have to be aggressive and take charge if you want her to be your lover.

What you want is to find the right balance with your personality. The sweet spot in between where you can find yourself getting what you want — the girl — and being the nice guy you are without compromising your values.