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I’d like to start out by saying…
Getting a woman to like you may sound simple enough.
However, if she’s not interested in you, getting a girl to like you is a bit like pushing a boulder up a hill. Who wants to do that?
Remember, you can’t convince a woman to like you, ever.
Sure it’s very much possible to make her interested in you, if you know what you’re doing, but there are plenty of other women out there.
What I’m trying to say is you should know when to stop pursuing a girl and move on.
But I digress.
Don’t give her a reason to dislike you
If you want a girl to like you, the first you want to do is to not give her any reason to dislike you.
Simple enough, right?
If you eliminate anything that would raise a red flag, you’ll have a higher chance of her liking you without much effort.
Like I said, simple!
That’s the general idea anyway. But most guys don’t seem to know what to they when they’re faced with a gorgeous girl. Let alone getting her to like them, they don’t even know how to get her attention and get noticed.
If you want a girl to notice you, you have to be attractive enough. Although there are many ways you can do that, the quickest way is to make yourself look attractive.
Since being attractive may take some time, starting from the outside while you take care of the inside will get you results much quicker.
That starts with proper hygiene and self-care. This alone prevents you from getting kicked in the face — just kidding. She won’t kick you but she’ll be grossed out if you don’t take care of yourself and your appearance.
On the other hand, if you look good and smell good, she may want to know more about you.
So make sure you present yourself well in front of people. Sure being handsome helps, but don’t just be handsome. Be more than just handsome.
What I mean by that, by the way, is don’t expect women to like you just because you’re handsome.
When a man is as quiet as a mouse or as timid as a rabbit, looks get wasted.
Display confident body language
Next would be making use of attractive body language so you can attract women even before you start talking to her. If you want women to like you, get your slumping posture and shrinking presence fixed. It’s not that hard once you know how.
Getting started with these few steps will let you build confidence; and you know what confidence is, right? It’s simply the magic ingredient in the attraction process. Because without confidence, attraction fails, almost every time.
When you start having confidence, which is an attractive behavior, other things start to follow and move you along in the right direction.
You naturally eliminate your unattractive behaviors in the process. That means, not being desperate, acting needy, or doing stupid things out of insecurity.
Have a positive outlook
When good things start to happen and you’re on a roll, it will be easy to have a brighter and more positive outlook in life. Don’t take this for granted.
Having a positive attitude is better than having a negative one if you want women to like you. There are many reasons why this is.
For one, having a positive attitude about yourself is healthy. If you value yourself, women will also see that and treat you as such.
Moreover, like attracts like.
This means your positivity will attract happy girls instead of those who bring with them baggage and drama. You see, if your outlook is positive, you end up with something good as well.
Oh, and did I also mention that if you want to make girls laugh, it’s easier if you can look at the funny things in life?
Another not-so-hidden secret to making a girl like you is, as you know, humor. And the ability to make girls laugh cannot be overestimated in making her fall for you. If you think you lack this skill, I recommend you see High Status Humor.
Then after that, all you have to do is make yourself valuable enough in her eyes.
Doing this allows you NOT to be ignored. In fact, she won’t be able to ignore you.
She’ll take notice.
And she’ll begin to like you even before you know it.
Read here: How to tell if she is already attracted to you.
Getting a woman to like you is a matter of showing your good and lovable side to her so you don’t give her the chance to push you away because of your not-so-good qualities.
Putting your best foot forward!
On the active side, every woman wants to be treated like she’s special and unique. You can treat her differently than other girls, but this comes much later.
And that’s how it should be because she’s unique and special in your eyes. Sometimes a simple compliment can be very effective in making her smile.
Just don’t overdo it.
Women like a man who can make them laugh.
That goes without saying that humor is an essential part of getting her to like you.
If you can make her laugh without seeming like a clown performing a show for her, she’ll like you even more.
The way to get her to like you
Essentially though, being a man who naturally attracts women is the ideal way to get a woman to like you.
When you have your “core” taken care of, all things will fall into place, and attracting women won’t be anything close to challenging anymore.
You may even get a few women chasing you instead. Imagine not really doing anything to pursue the ladies, but they notice you and want to get to know you on their own.
That’s something every man should strive for.
Forget the pickup lines and sneaky tactics.
Just be the guy she can’t help but like — and chase.
That’s way better in the long run, right?
If you agree, check out The Tao of Badass.