Bars are a great place to meet women — or just practice meeting women.
There are a lot of women in bars expecting to be approached by guys. They prepare for it like a sport. And the filter out and disqualify unworthy competitors.
That makes it challenging enough for most guys to drink a few shots before going in on the girl they chose to meet.
And if you’re acclimated to meeting girls in bars, and you know how to do it right, you’ll find it easier to get the girl’s attention and keep it for how ever long you want than any other guy in there.
Even with all that, if you want to be able to meet women in bars, you’ll have to customize your approach to suit the kind of atmosphere and vibe of the place.
It can be difficult to carry on a conversation if it’s too noisy and there’s a lot of distraction in the environment. So it’s a good idea to find a place to bring her along after you’ve “open” her to continue your conversation in a more appropriate and quiet place.
Before going in the bar to meet women, be sure you’re in a good and positive mindset. Smile, enjoy yourself, and be open to meeting women. Girls don’t like men who sulk in the corner and wait for opportunities to come. Don’t do it.
Don’t expect that to happen. Most of the time, they’ll just ignore you and won’t send you those “come here” signals when they want you to approach them. Instead, go dance and talk to people. Keep yourself busy and enjoy yourself.
Meeting girls in bars should be easy. If you can approach her and get her engaged without feeling insecure and being able to handle anything that comes your way.
Meeting women and finding a great girl is a numbers game.
Take risks and conquer your fears. Do it as many times as you can and you won’t have a problem on meeting women in bars ever again.