How to Meet and Attract Women in Bars

Do you want to meet and attract women in bars?

Bars can be a good place to meet women. Why?

Because women expect to meet men here. This is the place they expect to socialize with other people.

In fact, there are many women in bars who expect to be approached by guys.

Like a sport, they prepare for it and they filter out and disqualify unworthy competitors.

With this kind of expectation, it makes it a bit challenging for guys not to drink a few shots before going in to talk to a girl they would like to meet.

And you can expect a lot of brush-offs before you hail a taxi back to your place.

So what can you do to successfully meet girls in bars?

Make yourself presentable

A big part of it comes from the way you carry yourself.

That’s why it is always to your advantage to come out of your crib looking handsome and attractive whether you’re meeting girls in bars or walking your turtle.

Another factor that affects meeting a woman in a bar is your conversation and overall social skills.

If you can easily strike up an interesting conversation with her, there will be no reason for her to turn away and talk to the next guy.

The moment you enter the door

Here’s an idea: Be exciting and entertaining the moment you step in the room. This is crucial.

In a bar setting, you can’t be boring.

You can think of it like she’ll always have a next guy to move on to, the moment you lost her attention.

And if you’re acclimated to meeting girls in bars, and you know how to do it right, you’ll find it easier to get the girl’s attention and keep it for how long you want than any other guy in there.

That means, you know how to properly use your body language, your tone of voice, and your appearance to your advantage.

You’ve got the basics down of attracting women. You’ve got your fundamentals handled.

You’re confident.

You know how to talk to women and make the conversation engaging and interesting.

Even with all that, if you want to be able to meet women in bars, you’ll have to customize your approach to suit the kind of atmosphere and vibe of the place.

It can be difficult to carry on a conversation if it’s too noisy and there’s a lot of distraction in the environment.

So it’s a good idea to find a place to bring her along after you “open” her to continue your conversation in a more appropriate and quiet place.

Have the right mindset

Before going in the bar to meet women, be sure you’re in a good and positive mindset.

You’ll need if you want to be aware of the things happening around you. What for?

When you can’t think of anything interesting to say, you can point out the funny things going around you.

Always remember to smile and enjoy yourself and be open to meeting women. Girls don’t like men who sulk in the corner, waiting for opportunities to come to him.

Don’t expect that to happen.

Most of the time, they’ll just ignore you and won’t send you those “come here” signals when they want you to approach them.

Some will even give you an attitude for being approached by too many boring guys. But even with that, you can still turn it around and use it as an opportunity to create some attraction within her.

All you have to do is pass her tests and make her want to see you again.

Be active

Instead, go dance and talk to people. Keep yourself busy, play games, and enjoy yourself.

Meeting girls in bars can be easy if you know what to do.

If you can master the skill of having a fun and flirty conversations with women, it would be like making small talk sexy.

If you can approach her and get her engaged without feeling insecure and being able to handle anything that comes your way.

Meeting women and finding a great girl is a numbers game.

Take risks and conquer your fears. Do it as many times as you can, and you will have a blast meeting women in bars.

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