How to Handle a Woman’s Tests

Women will throw shit tests at you.

She will test you if you are or how sure you are of yourself. She will put on the pressure to see if you will crack. To see if you’re really strong or just trying to look strong.

To see if your actions match your words.

A woman’s test is not bad, you can even say it’s good. Why? Because depending on how you handle them, you can increase attraction to you if you do it right.

What is woman’s test?

A woman’s test is basically her defense against low value men hitting on her and trying to pick her up since she can’t let just anyone in and have access to her. This saves her time sifting through sludge.

A hot girl gets approached by a horde of hungry guys. How can she handle all of them? Since she knows very few will be able to give her what she desires, she uses a shit test. It’s a quick and easy way to vet possible candidates.

Think of it as a guard repelling anyone who tries to enter her front door. This guard is invisible to most guys and don’t even know they’re being tested. Even after they crashed and burned.

And most guys get discouraged, feel rejected and frustrated, and run away from whence they came. The few who pass her test, who don’t get easily discouraged by a little resistance gets to talk to her.

Though it doesn’t mean that once you pass the initial test it’s over.

It’s actually “on” all the time. She’ll always test you to see if you’re good enough to be her man. And most of the time without being consciously aware of the fact since it’s become a natural thing for her to weed out the wussies to find the few real men out there who can take her shit when she can’t.

If you don’t know how to deal with women’s test, these tests may bring out the insecurities in you and you’ll feel doubt and anxiety.

So you better know how to recognize when you’re being tested and how to handle a woman’s test and come out on top.

The former is simple enough to do.

Knowing when she’s testing you

If you think you’re being tested, then you are. Or if she’s acting strange, in a way you wouldn’t expect of how a woman treats her friends or other people then you know what’s happening.

Better yet, just assume everything is a test so you don’t miss a thing and you’re always ready to handle her tests whenever it comes.

A woman’s test can be about anything.

She may attack your looks, make fun of your insecurities, and hammer you with put downs and you’ll feel like being roasted. She may ask random things to get you to react, get frustrated, sad, depressed, or defensive.

Are you the real deal? That’s what she wants to know and quick.


How do you handle a girl’s shit test?

What do you do when she throws a curve ball you thought was going to hit your face but actually a sinker aimed at your little brother?

Fortunately, there are more than one way to handle a women’s tests that can come your way. Used correctly, you can pass almost any shit test she can come up with. Make them work for you as other guys have.

But to be successful at dealing with them, you have to be calm and confident. You can’t freak out even for just a little bit, and you can’t show it even for just a second. So relax and remain calm and respond in a cocky and funny way if you know how it’s done.

That’s one way to handle a woman’s test.

Another thing you can do, if you want to get it over fast, is just ignore her altogether and continue what you’re doing like it didn’t happen. If you’re talking to her about something and she tries something to make you react, just continue to conversation like nothing happened.

Easy, right?

Whatever she says, wave it off, continue, or change the subject. Or say, that’s cute and forget she even said anything. You’re implying that her silly test is not even worth your attention.

After a while, when you always ignore her random shit test, she’ll stop testing you since she knows what’s gonna happen.

However, some women can be persistent, some will even walk away. So it depends on what type of woman you’re dealing with, especially if it’s someone you haven’t established some rapport with.

And if she tries to make you do something you don’t want to do, you can always make her jump first or attach a condition before you agree to do anything for her.

Then again, you don’t have to do anything for her and you can just defuse the situation using humor.

One comedy technique you can use to great effect is called exaggeration. Blow her tests out of proportion. Make it absurd in a funny and witty way. Take it to the next level. It doesn’t even matter how long or short your answer, just as long as it’s amusing to you.

So when she try to test you, reply with something obviously silly in your playful voice. The more stoopid your reply, the more she’ll realize you don’t give a f*ck. So have fun with it and say whatever you want. It doesn’t really matter what you say as long as it’s an obvious exaggeration.

Depending on your situation, you may not have the time to go on a silly long-winded story and you’ll often have to go with a pithy reply with a tease in the end for extra punch.

By making her criticism completely ridiculous and absolutely absurd, this can be all you need to get past a girl’s test. You can agree or disagree but you’ve got to amplify it past the rational point.

Be like a monk

All you gotta remember when you’re dealing with a girl’s test is, again, to be calm and relax like a monk. Don’t argue with her, complain, or even get upset even just a little. You have to really not care about her tests. Be congruent or else she’ll see through what you’re doing.

Though shit tests don’t really mean anything and only used to see if you got your act together, recognizing and passing a woman’s test is important so you can be better prepared for the inevitable.

Know when she’s trying to be cute with you and handle it properly. If you can quickly recognize a test for what it is — something irrelevant and silly — you can simply laugh it off, ignore it, and carry on as usual.

Because when you passed her tests, you’ll get better attraction from her and improve your relationship with her. And when she’s testing you, you already know that there’s some interest for you already.

The more you show you’re self-assured, the more likely she’ll throw a test, especially when a girl is interested in you. She wants to make sure you’re the kind of guy who means what he says. You don’t get hung up on random comments.

Once you get used to it, attracting and seducing women will become effortless.

Expect it; it’s inevitable. So you don’t get affected whatever it is.

Prepare for her tests, effectively deal with whatever she throws at you, and come out on top.


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