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Are you asking a girl to be your girlfriend?
It’s okay to be nervous, but not to freak out over it.
Since you feel that it is time to ask THE question, you should plan well and have some tips in mind to make it as smooth as possible.
Assuming you’ve been hanging out with her for a while and she likes you back, if you time it just right, you could potentially get yourself a girlfriend.
Are you excited? I bet you are!
How do you ask a girl to be your girlfriend?
If you remember the proper way to ask a girl out, the same strategy is useful in asking a girl to be your official girlfriend.
Again, before you ask any girl to be your girlfriend, it is better if you are way beyond the getting-to-know her stage.
- You have been on a few dates before, and you already know a lot about her.
- You have chatted with her, found what she likes, dislikes, hobbies, and most of the things she does for fun.
- You have also flirted with her, teased her, joked around with her, made her laugh, or held her hand.
- You took the time to get close to her, gained her trust, learned about her life, family, and friends.
- You have enjoyed each other’s company, and you feel you two would be a good match.
In short, you have given her enough time to figure out and to develop her feelings for you.
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When You’re Ready
Invite her to spend some time with you alone.
If you are going to ask her to be your girlfriend, you want to be in a one on one situation, away from distractions and other people’s eyes and ears.
You can take her to a quiet coffee shop, a nearby peaceful park, a lovely dinner, or even your place.
Once you have settled, get into some small talk and lighthearted conversation with her.
You can ask her, “How was your day,” “What have you been up to lately,” or you can say, “A funny thing happened yesterday…” and get into your story.
You don’t have to feel pressured to ask the question you wanted to ask if it doesn’t feel right or the time is not appropriate.
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Even if you asked to meet with her, you do not need to rush.
Take the pressure off yourself by giving her a compliment about how you like the way she laughs or how great her outfit is.
You can even prepare a gift for her, if you like, to let her know that there is something different about this moment.
Once you’ve had enough casual questions, and you feel it is time to take the conversation into a more serious tone, to get her undivided attention, tell her you that have something important to say.
Ask Her to Be Your Girlfriend
Does it make your nervous? You can do it!
You can say it as plainly as, “I like you, would like you to be my girlfriend?”
Or some variations of that like:
- I like you a lot, and I’d like to date you.
- We’ve been hanging out, and I started to have feelings for you, would you like to be my girlfriend?
- We’ve known each other long, and I feel I know you well, and I wanted to ask if you’d like to be my girlfriend?
- I like spending time with you, and you’ve become a significant part of my life, will you be my girlfriend?
- I have feelings for you past being friends. If you feel the same, I’d like to go out with you.
If you took her someplace special and she is enjoying the evening, you can tell her you like her and would like to have many more nights like it with her.
If she says yes, seal the deal. Or give her a personal token as a sign of your commitment to her.
You are now a couple.
If she says no or if she’s not ready to be in a relationship, don’t sweat it. Most of the time, if it doesn’t work out, it does not have anything to do with you.
Tell her it’s okay.
Perhaps nothing will change, and you can keep hanging out with her as friends.
When you ask her, don’t be pushy or aggressive. Let her know it’s okay to say no.
Asking Her Over Text
Though asking a girl to be your girlfriend over text is not ideal, if texting her is the only option you have, be sure to keep it fun and casual, not overly serious.
Once you get into a good conversation and it is flowing smoothly, subtly flirt and send something like, “I miss you. I wish I could see your pretty face right now.”
If you think she likes you too, send her, “So I really like you,” and directly ask the question, “Will you be my girlfriend?”
Then if she says yes, ask her to meet up. Otherwise, respect her decision, and remain friends, if possible.
Alright, now that all the primary stuff is out of the way, it is time to tell you the truth.
Directly asking a girl is not the only strategy to make her your girlfriend.
Better Way to Get Her to Be Your Girlfriend
You see, directly asking a girl could potentially end things between you and this cute, fun, girlfriend material who you want to be committed to you.
If you’re ready to get into a committed relationship with the girl you like, do not ask her to be your girlfriend.
If you want a fun and beautiful relationship with her, there is a better way to get her to be your girlfriend without directly asking her.
You see, girls like things to be “just kind of happened” naturally.
Asking her kind of forces things and puts you in a position where you’re asking for more.
So you want to get her so attracted to you, you become a catch for her. She has to feel you make her better.
When she can’t even think about losing you, it will naturally transition into a relationship.
She will be the one to ask you.
To do that, you have to spend time with her, share more good experiences with her, allow her to chase you, and be the best guy for her.
Even better, assume you are together and act as if she is already your girlfriend.
Ask yourself: What would you do if she was already your girlfriend?
Do those things, and you will move her into the girlfriend category and allow the relationship to happen as naturally as the sun rising from the east.
She will want to have the ‘What are we?’ conversation first.
Since whoever brings up the ‘relationship’ talk first is less willing to walk away, she can be the best girlfriend you could ever have.
If you want to have a great relationship with the girl you like, focus on having her fall for you so hard that she can’t think of losing you.
Make her want to be your girlfriend through your actions.
Still here? You are awesome!
Since You Made It This Far…
This tells me that you’re serious about improving your situation with that lovely girl that’s been running laps in your head.
So I saved most of the advanced stuff — used by the best seducers — for serious guys like you. It’s a series of tips and secrets you can use almost immediately.
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