Talking to women during the day is not the same during the night.
At night, the usual meeting place happens in bars and clubs where there’s loud music playing, a lot of background noise, and the energy level is much, much higher. You’re usually pumped and jumping and dancing when you talk to girls at night.
It’s very different during the day. In the day time, talking to women happens mostly in the streets, coffee shops, bookstores, train stations, and other public places where the vibe is more relaxed and casual.
Also, the women are in their natural state, not in their dolled-up and definitely not in their pretty night dress. They’re more likely going somewhere, most likely work or school, and they’re busy.
So, you got to make the approach direct and not waste any of their time.
You have to get their attention fast, and keep it as long as you’re interacting with her. Don’t pay attention to anyone who’s watching or what’s happening with other people. Don’t get distracted.
Once you’re talking to her, keep in mind that what you do to talk to girls at night might be successful during the night but may not work at all during the day.
But, you still got to lead and take the conversation to where you want it to go.
Use statements instead of questions at the right time so you can keep her talking about herself more. And listen and take in the conversation to raise her interest level in you.
The conversation can happen really quickly, you’ll have just around ten minutes to get her attracted and build some rapport. It helps if you’re playful and your approach is well thought of while making it feel natural and spontaneous.
You can compliment and tease her lightly. Not as much during the night, though. And the physical contact can almost be non-existent. Just some handshake or friendly hug will often be normal.
You need to get her investing early on. Ask her open-ended questions once you know she’s interested in the interaction. Even if she asks you a question, answer it quickly and then bring the conversation back to her.
If you don’t know how to get her attention, the opening to use, the question to ask her to get her to invest in the interaction, daygame blueprint should help you with all of that and more.