How To Pick Up Girls

Dave
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I’m going to assume that since you want to pick up girls…

You either want to take her home (or somewhere where you two can be alone together) or get her phone number so you can meet up again later–so you can be alone together again.

These are the outcome you want, right?

So how do you get there?

But before I tell you that, you have to prepare yourself.

What do you need?

A massive bank account? No. And put your wallet away before people get the wrong idea.

If you want to meet a girl and have her welcoming to your advances…

Well, you have to at least be presentable; and have an air of confidence that says, “I’m the shit!.”

Otherwise, you won’t get very far or noticed if you don’t have at least those qualities.

That’s the minimum requirement. So let’s get it on…

Approach her

First, you need to be able to approach when you see a girl you want to pick up.

Failing to do this won’t even get you started. You’ll be just another bystander staring at her.

If only it was as easy as 1-2-3. Wait. It’s as easy as that.

You just ignore whatever is stopping you from going over there and start talking to her. Once the thought of meeting her enters your mind, count from 1 to 3 and go!

You may be afraid or nervous that you’ll say something stupid but that doesn’t matter.

What matters is you’ve done it and you’ve got over your fear of taking the initiative and talking to her.

Engage her in conversation

Now, let’s assume you’ve blurted out something and she’s now facing you, what do you do now?

This is where the fun starts.

What you want now is to hold her attention, get her interested in what you want to say, so she’ll know what you want.

There’s no point in getting her to face you and then getting ignored after two seconds, right?

Then how do you do just that?

A really good way is to make her laugh.

That works most of the time.

You’re giving her some positive emotions which is what you want so she’ll remember you after this initial interaction.

If you can’t make her laugh, don’t sweat it.

More often than not, if you’ve prepared well, she’ll be intrigued by what you have to say.

Or she’s actually a nice, sweet girl who’ll listen to what you want to say to her.

You see, most girls are nice and social; not every girl you’ll meet are bitchy and rude.

But if they are, don’t be fooled.

Most of the time, they’re just covering their sweet side and filtering out losers.

Anyway, you need to keep the conversation flowing and natural from here on out.

And if you follow these steps completely, it’s just smooth sailing.

If you’ve done everything right, you’ll have her hand or her number by the end of the pick up.

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