Okay, I won’t pretend to know everything about stripper and these are just some ideas to try if you want to have some fun and pickup a stripper. If you can pull it off, it can become a really rewarding experience.
The key to picking up strippers is to be simply different from all the other guys and paying customers. You want to be someone who don’t see strippers as sexual objects but more of a human being with feelings who’s just in another job in the club.
While still being comfortable and confident and not feel out of place in her place of work. You should be able to look her in the eye, and keep eye contact with her without staring at her body. You don’t care if she’s got the hottest ass you’ve ever seen.
The good thing about picking up a stripper is that you don’t have to approach them. They’ll approach you, instead. And that makes it a good setup for practicing your conversation skills to perfection.
This also save you from facing any kind of rejection or something close to it when you’re the one doing the approaching.
You can talk about anything you like but stick to something about her life and ambitions instead of something about her job (most don’t like their job at all). Of course, avoid talking about topics that are a deemed to serious or negative or anything that would make the vibe gloomy.
This will set you apart from all the other guys out there and all the while building some comfort with her. Of course, you can be the cocky and funny guy if you encounter something you’re not quite sure how to respond to, like refusing a dance from her.
If you accept a dance from her, you’ll be just another one of her customer and you’ll stay in that category no matter what you do. Another thing you can do to raise your value and stand out from her other customer is to know someone from the club.
You can befriend the bartender or the other staff so you’ll have some social proof you can use later on. It’s also a good way to get some free drinks.
If things are going good and you want to get her number, be discreet about it. And once you get it, be cool and don’t make a big deal about it. Then you can meet her later outside of the club or just ask her to hang out somewhere.