Simple Dating Tips For A Guy Who Is Tired Of Being Shy

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Shy guys have it tough when it comes to dating.

I know, personally, because I’m one of those shy, quiet guys. Social interactions can be draining. And I’d rather avoid socializing than struggle with meeting new people. The awkward silences are simply killers.

But it doesn’t have to be that way.

If you want to get out there and meet women, you can’t stay comfortable forever in your little corner of the world.

With a few dating tips for shy guys and a little time, you’ll find yourself busy with girls trying to hook up with you. Or at least find a girlfriend you can be happy and contented with.

Overcome your shyness

Naturally though, you have to, one way or another, overcome your shyness and be able to talk to women and generally people.

You need be able to approach a girl, start a conversation with her, and then go from there.

You don’t have to overthink this part, either. Give yourself a little goal like introducing yourself, getting her name, or asking for time.

A way you can make this easy for yourself is learn small talk. This is an important skill you can use in most of your interactions.

Practice is simple enough that you can turn to the person sitting next to you and make friends. The point is to get comfortable talking to people you don’t know. [Read: Make Small Talk Sexy]

One step at a time

You need to build your confidence, even slowly.

That’s the first step you have to take. It’s not rocket science and many shy guys have done it before you, so you don’t have to worry about it being complicated.

In fact, there is a series of steps you can take to give yourself rock-solid confidence outlined in The Collection of Confidence. It start with a very simple observation and goes all the way to something very challenging.

All you need is the right attitude and mindset to tackle your shyness and meet beautiful women.

You will fail, a lot. And you will be successful, too.

Love the way you look

Of course, you are going to have to improve how you look in the mirror.

It doesn’t have to be drastic.

Some simple things like getting a nice haircut, trimming your nails, and overall being presentable will help you get a favorable impression from the opposite sex. [Read: Handsome Guys Secrets]

This will help you feel positive and confident when you want to initiate a conversation with a girl.

Go for it

Like every other outgoing guy out there. Meeting and attracting women takes a lot of trying. What is important is you make that attempt and go for it.

Now. I don’t expect you to immediately approach a gorgeous woman at your first rodeo. But if you want to shake up the old tree, go ahead and do it.

You’ll learn from it and make your progress much faster.

Low risk way to meet women

But if you’re truly and undeniably shy and can’t see yourself doing that, there are other low risk way to meet women. It’s not as exciting as going full throttle head-on but, it works, too.

You see, the easiest and most successful way — in terms of finding a girlfriend or starting a relationship — to meet women is to have your friends introduce their single female friends to you.

You know how it works, right?

You have a common friend so the girl will already have some trust in you since you were introduced by a good friend. And you’ll find it easy to hangout with her and you see each other often, too.

Sounds great, right?

And there are also other ways other than using your bridges. If you have a hobby or something you like to do, you can always take a class and meet women there.

Participate in community activities where girls are bound to make an appearance. Find something that obviously outnumbers the male population like adult studies, hiking and yoga.

Put yourself in these situations and you’ll definitely meet more women, guaranteed, as long as it’s not driven with testosterone.

And… there’s always what you use to get connected worldwide. It always amazes me how many girls are on the internet these days. Some sites are just filled with them and new ones are always joining.

Just brush up your online game and you’re good to go.

But… don’t forget you still have to meet the women you find online in person, so remember to follow the steps to a successful interaction.

You don’t have to struggle with dating beautiful girls if you don’t want to. Open your mind and step a bit out of your comfort zone and you can make meeting girls even if you are shy.

 

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