If you’ve been text messaging a girl without getting any response… stop.
Just stop what you’re doing and leave her alone for a while, maybe a week or so. You don’t want to keep nagging her and bother her with the same lame text message you’ve been using forever.
You gotta send her a text message that will surely get her attention.
Or at least get a reaction from her that will make her hit the reply button and type a message back to you.
It can either be something funny, interesting, or just plain unexpected from you.
Make her curious enough to want to know more, like you’re dangling a string and baiting her to grab it and pull.
It won’t work every time, because you don’t know what’s going on with her at the moment you send her the text message, but it’s powerful enough to get her attention when she opens and reads it.
Here’s a couple of examples:
- “OMG, I just met your twin!”
- “Just saw something that reminded me of you.”
- “Hey you. Can you keep a secret?”
- “Great! When are we going?”
From Rob’s 99 Best Text from Magnetic Messaging:
- “Even your texts have a weird accent… where are they from?”
- “Red or black? Quick!”
- “I think I sprained my soul last night”
From Mehow’s Three Second Sexual Attraction (Text Game Chapter):
- “I just got back from Maui, I saw a very cute fish. It reminded me of you.”
- “That’s it. I come home and find out you have been shagging the pool man, I want a divorce. WTF do we do about the cats? Fluffy’s mine.”
- “I met your twin last night.”
- “How’s rehab?”
- “Where are all the pervy texts you usually send me?”
You can also use callback humor from your previous interaction with her or just continue conversation threads from previous days.
There are loads more of example text messages you can use included in the free ebook of Magnetic Messaging (Reviewed here). And you’ll be able to understand better what you need to do to successfully get her out on a date even if she’s been ignoring your text messages.
Most of the time, you don’t need to start with pleasantries and just go straight to the good stuff. A short, one liner message may work, but something longer and with substance is better.
You can even send her flirtatious text messages if you know how it’s done, as long as it’s engaging and interesting enough to wake her up from her boring day.
Even something that don’t make sense where she has to ask a follow-up question to make things clearer is way better than sending her something boring and used-up like “Hey”.
Be original and at least funny without resorting to a cheesy line you’ve seen somewhere. Just say enough to intrigue her and get a few text messages sent between the two of you. Then invite her to go out and hang out some time.
You should enjoy texting while keeping it simple and fun.