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You are probably thinking about her. But could you say the same about her?
If you can get on her mind, you’re already a few turns away from stepping into her heart and actual door.
Making a woman think about you when you’re not around levels the playing field a bit. If she’s not thinking about you — when you are thinking about her nonstop — it will make it hard for you to move things forward. Getting her to agree to meet with you for some drinks, for instance, may take more than a couple of texts.
And knowing she’s thinking about you is a great feeling, isn’t it?
If you can occupy her mind rent free, she’ll be wanting you naturally.
She’ll want to talk to you. She’ll be subtly giving you come hither signals going in your direction.
Get any girls wondering about you
If you like her and hope she feels the same way, you need to consider how you make her think about you. Why? Because girls are individual. They’re not all the same. Each is unique in their own way. So carefully consider what she will take notice of.
However, there are good rules of thumb you should definitely adhere to if you want any girl thinking about you in — a good way.
You starts with giving off a good first impression which is only possible if you’re always presenting your best self and looking handsome all the time.
That means you should be taking care of yourself, and dressing appropriately — wearing comfortable, fitting clothes, and letting your unique sense of style show.
Here’s another one: The way you talk to her and how you interact with your surroundings and other people. It all adds up to how her first impression of you forms and settles. So be sure to treat her and other people right because that affects how she thinks about you later.
If you can give her a good experience when you are with her, you’ll be stuck in her mind for a while when you are apart.
One of the best ways to get into her head is to flirt with her. This allows you to build tension and get her thinking about your flirty conversations with her.
At least, do everything right and don’t mess things up. Before you can make yourself memorable, you have to make her comfortable.
And please pay attention and remember what she said when she was talking about her mom. Remembering little details like that makes her feel good. Better than good actually because you are treating her right.
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Keep her aware with text messages
And after the initial attraction, keep her aware of your existence. Use your mobile phone to send her the right text messages that keeps the game going.
Now, it doesn’t matter how long you wait before you text or call her. What matters is you do it sooner rather than later (but not too soon and too often).
Break the pattern every now and then. Spontaneity helps her think about you and wonder what you’re doing right now. She’ll keep you on her mind longer when you don’t do the typical.
You know what else makes a girl think about you?
A little mystery.
Leave her alone so you won’t be alone
You can’t always be with her if you want a girl to think about you. Think about it. How can you win her heart if you seem desperate to her? So don’t suffocate her by being available all the time.
Get busy and do something else. Meet other women and get their number so you’ll have other options and better chances of going out on a date on any specific day.
Give the girl some space to miss you and let her anticipation build — if you did a solid job of attracting her and building a solid connection with her.
If you can do that, she won’t be having time to rest while you’re on her mind.
And the next time you see, she’ll not only be happy but truly excited and pumped to spend time together with you.
Follow the steps to every successful interaction and she’ll be thinking of you, her mind filled with thoughts of your first encounter.
Take your time and slowly build tension. The road to her mind is neither short nor long, but it can take a while to get there if you’re not equipped with certain tools.
If you want to make sure you get her thinking about you, you need to be aware of certain psychological truths related to women. You can find more about that here.
Do these things and you are on your way to her mind.
Still here? You are awesome!
Since You Made It This Far…
This tells me that you’re serious about improving your situation with that lovely girl that’s been running laps in your head.
So I saved most of the advanced stuff — used by the best seducers — for serious guys like you. It’s a series of tips and secrets you can use almost immediately.
I’ll wait for you inside.