If you have no clue on what you’re doing, attracting beautiful women online can be like eating rock and will make you question your sanity.
That’s why most guys give up within weeks.
If you haven’t tried it before, then you don’t know what I’m talking about.
Consider the internet as one huge “virtual playground” where you can do a whole lot of things including getting dates from dating websites (where most of the singles are looking for mates).
And then you have the average guy hoping to snag a beauty from one of those sites and apps.
He tries it without really understanding how.
Nothing seems to work (no surprise there).
Then he gives up and decides: this online dating stuff is crap.
But online dating is not just about dating websites.
It’s not limited to that, at all.
Think about it, any site (or any application) where you can talk to girls online can be a potential too you can use to get dates.
Yes, get dates.
Not linger around for weeks talking to some chick getting to know her better.
Because that’s what it all is, a medium for face-to-face encounters (like texting).
Staying online for weeks emailing and chatting with someone without meeting is just a waste of time.
If you want to succeed in online dating and easily get girls to excitedly meet up with you, you’ve found the right place.
Getting Up and Running
If you want to attract women online, you need a good online dating profile with some good pictures of you and a way to message women that will get them attracted to you without fail.
With that said, setting up a profile is easier than learning how to send messages and emails that get replies from interested (and attracted) women.
That can take some time to master.
And a shift in your mindset is necessary if you’re used to one word messages like ‘hi’.
So, let’s get to setting up…
Your Online Dating Profile
Think of your profile like a singles ad in a newspaper (or a billboard).
It’s all your visitors will know about you.
Try and imagine what they’ll think about you when they read your profile or see your picture. How do you want to be perceived in about 8 seconds flat?
So, you got to have a good and well written profile.
With that in mind, here’s some tips on having an attractive profile:
Avoid Excessive Bragging
Let women know your attractive qualities without bragging.
As you know, bragging is unattractive and it turns most women off. And they’re less likely to believe you.
Instead, embed it in your stories or just show it to them.
Let them come to the conclusion that you have that attractive quality.
That’s way more powerful than telling them outright.
And be sure to…
Be Honest and Genuine
Honesty… is still the best policy.
Don’t lie or attempt to mislead by giving exaggerated information.
It will only work against you in the end if you tell them a bunch of BS.
You will eventually meet some of the girls who view your profile face-to-face.
So be truthful in everything you put in your dating profile from the start. And make sure they can recognize you by using a recent picture.
Why? Because nothing turns women off faster than a black hole of negativity.
So let them know you’re a man who has things going for you.
You enjoy life and you’re busy living it.
Leave out the nasty stuff about you.
If you’re not living that life… do that first.
Use Proper Grammar
That includes using proper spelling and punctuation.
You don’t want to come across as uneducated do you?
There’s a lot of space in your profile, so complete your words and sentences.
You don’t have to use “fancy” words, just use words the right way.
And here’s an important tip: use words that invoke emotions and images if you can. That brings us to…
Have a Picture
Your online dating picture is one of the key to getting good results online.
Since your profile picture increases your chance of getting replies and messages, make sure to upload something interesting and a bit different from all the other guys with their (shirtless) self-portrait.
Show them something interesting… something that will tell them about yourself.
It can be something about what you’re like as a person or what you like to do with your time.
And make sure it’s good quality photo, too. (Did you know there are now professional photographers specializing in making sure you have a good online dating photo?)
Keep Your Online Dating Profile Simple
You create your first impression with your profile. So make sure it is engaging and written well.
Your profile doesn’t have to be long. You’re not writing a novel. And women won’t have time to read a novel-long profile anyway.
Save most of what you have to say when you are messaging her and when you’re face-to-face with her.
Use humor when appropriate and let her have a taste of your charming personality.
Depending on the dating site you’re using, you’ll find a bunch of fields to fill out. Think about your answers to questions and complete your dating profile as you use the site.
But a simple dating profile should include these basic elements:
A short paragraph about you, another for the one you’re looking for, and your ideal date. And of course, a dashing photo of you.
After you have completed your basic online dating profile, you now have to…
Ask Her To Do Something
Tell her to contact you at the end of your profile.
What’s the point of reading your whole profile if you don’t tell her to contact you.
Get to the point.
Have something funny or witty.
When you get your profile done, it’s time to…
Message Some Girls
Or answer their messages.
This is where it gets fun.
Remember the purpose is to get some face-to-face time with her.
In short, a “date”.
So set a date as soon as you can or get her number after a few exchanges. Just be normal about it like you’re talking to one of your buddies.
It makes attracting women simple enough.
This is the time when you have an advantage over offline dating.
Since you have a lot of time to think of a good reply or first message, use that to your advantage.
If you want to message someone that interests you, the easiest way is to just pick something about her profile to comment on. That way, it’s specific to her and it comes off as genuine and real.
With a few more practice, you’re on your way to online dating mastery.
Here are some things to avoid if want to attract women online:
- Don’t push too hard. If you do, you’ll come across as desperate or worst, creepy.
- Don’t be fake. Women can smell if you lie about yourself.
- Don’t make inappropriate comments. This also includes being rude, disrespectful, or condescending. That’s the fastest way to get blocked.
- Don’t be generic. Take the time to write a message that is specific to her.
- Don’t be impatient. Building a connection with her can take time.
Follow these tips and you’ll increase your chances of finding a date online.
Keep putting yourself out there.
For further reading, take a look at this online dating book. I’m sure you’ll get some excellent insights on how this whole online dating thing works.
And if you want to make sure you’re getting the most of online dating, be sure to check out 3 Girls a Day on how to get near endless dates from the internet with ease.