If you want know how to attract a girl, make her give you her undivided attention, have her laughing at your jokes, and have you on her mind you’re not around, keep reading.
You see, attracting women naturally can be simple!
Because attraction can happen instantly. That’s right!
You see, when a girl takes notice of your existence and she likes what she sees so far, there’s something that happens subconsciously.
All in just a split second, before you even had the chance to say a single word.
That is the where attraction starts.
And if you want to know how to attract girls, you should learn how to effectively use that moment to your advantage. How?
Think of it like this:
Let’s say someone wants to take a picture of you and she only has one chance to do that. What do you do so it comes out great? You present your best side, right?
Same is true with women.
You just have to be attractive or interesting enough to pass that initial snap judgment when she first becomes aware of your existence (which can happen without you even noticing).
Look, first impressions happen at about 13 milliseconds. That’s less than a second. That’s faster than a blink of an eye — which is 100 to 400 milliseconds. So you better be prepared, every time.
That is your first hurdle to attracting a beautiful woman.
And the first area you need to examine when no woman checks you out or even gives you a second glance or ignores you as if you don’t exist.
Because… that is exactly what happens when you don’t take advantage of that less-than-a-second chance you’ve been given to attract a girl.
And that’s not all.
You Only Have One
Shot At This
You see, most meetings in life happen only once. You get one chance to capture someone’s fancy, most of the time. That’s it. If you don’t make it count… it is ultimately lost forever.
That’s why you’ll hear most people call it a “chance meeting”. Once you miss that opportunity, it’s gone. Poof.
And, if you’re not properly taking advantage of the power of first impressions, if you don’t snag her interest at those crucial split second, you’ll have more work to do (later) if you want to get her interested.
Don’t Make It Harder
And it doesn’t matter where you try to meet women — streets, subway, coffee shop, book store, club, party, school, college, workplace, or anywhere else.
You’ll have to woo her. Charm her. And chase her, instead of the other way around — girls chasing you. You could have saved the time and skipped all that and went straight to the good part.
The part where she’s doing all the work for you.
So to make things easy for yourself, let’s get this one out of the way first.
How do you…
Get The Absolute Best First Impression?
I thought you’d never ask. You might think it’s about the way you look. And you’re right, for the most part. What you wear, and how you present yourself externally gets a major part of her vote.
And that’s easy to fix.
Here’s a simple way if you need help with your clothes: Ask some friend of yours who knows what they’re doing in this area. If you have friends with good taste, get their opinion.
You don’t need the expensive items or even look like you’re modeling for a magazine. But it has to be your own unique style.
There’s More To It Than
Just How You Look
Did you know that the way you talk, the sound of your voice, the way you walk, how you interact, and all the little things she perceives of you counts just as important if not more?
Even if you wear an expensive and fashionable suit, the best suit you can find but… if you don’t “own” it, you’re just wasting it all away. And we can’t have that, can we?
So, to get the most of it, you need to match your body language and your vibe to the identity you’re trying to project.
Here’s a small change can you do right away that will give your first impression a massive boost and attract girls instantly. A quick body language tweak you can easily do. So simple yet…
The Difference It Makes To
Here it is:
Look straight ahead. Lift your head up. And move in a slow and controlled manner. This will make your first impressions a lot better. (You’ll know why in a minute.)
If you present yourself in a way that when she takes a snap shot of you… she likes what she sees, even by just a little bit, you can pass this initial trial. You’ll have her wanting for more.
And that is how you attract women with your body language and all you need to make your next move. (Read more: How to Attract Women Without Talking)
But before we get to that, there’s something crucial you should know first.
You see, no matter what you do or how great of a guy you are, some women are just not going to be interested in you, for some reason or another.
This could have something to do with how she grew up, her social programming, or whatever. Or you’re simply not her type.
And if her initial opinion of you is bad, she’ll ignore you no matter what you do. Your low value is already cemented in her mind. When there’s a big neon sign inside her head that says, “Nah”. There’s very little you can do to change that.
Just know you won’t always be able to attract all and every women you set your sights on. That, simply… is not possible.
So what do you then?
Simple. You move on to the next girl.
Some guys make the mistake of spending all their time and energy into pursuing the one girl who’s not even interested in them in the slightest. Big, big, BIG mistake.
Don’t Make The Same Mistake
Don’t waste your time on someone who’s not even interested in what you have to offer. Your time is too precious to chase skirts and act like a whooped dog when you don’t get what you want.
There will always be another girl you can attract.
On the other hand, if you got her interested within that split second. And she obviously has the hots for you, you’re a big “Yes” in her mind, then of course you proceed to the next step.
That’s how you…
Attract Women Instantly
But if you missed your chance to impress a girl at that moment. Don’t lose hope just yet.
If her first impression of you is neutral, meaning she doesn’t have an opinion of you, neither good nor bad, you’re a “Maybe” in her pretty little head, you can still tip the scale to your favor.
This will take some work on your part but… you still have a chance.
And if you’re serious about learning how to attract women, that “chance” is all you need. You can still flip that “Maybe” in her mind into a flashing “Yes”.
To really know how to attract a girl, you have to know how she’s wired, what makes her tick. and what turns her on. In short, you have to know…
What Women Want In A Man
Let’s start with one of the most important if not “the” most important of all.
If you want to be sure to attract girls you gotta have this, no question about it. Read any book on how to attract beautiful women and you’ll find at least a chapter about it. That’s how important it is.
You can’t take attracting women and this attractive male quality from each other. What am I talking about? I’m sure you’ve it guessed by now.
You’ll see this attractive male trait in how a guy moves, talks and interacts with other people. Remember how I told you to make slow controlled movements? That is to project confidence.
And here’s another key quality that attracts a woman:
Ask any woman what she looks for in a man and this is always one of the things she’ll tell you. This male quality will easily get her to relax around you. Want to guess what it is? Go ahead.
It’s sense of humor.
Did you get that one right?
Listen: If you have these two qualities, you can be a bum and still get a girl. But for most women looking for a serious and steady relationship, that’s not going to be enough, for obvious reasons.
And if you want to effortlessly meet and attract quality, exciting women, you gotta be something more than just a guy who’s able make her laugh.
You gotta be able to protect her and provide for her. And what do you need to able to do that?
Read more of what attracts women to men to get an idea.
Rest assured, knowing what women want will give you a definite edge over the next guy, not just in attracting the ladies, but also in improving the overall quality of your life.
These are the attractive qualities of a high value man. Make use of these to get a girl to like you. And don’t leave it all to chance because…
You’re Not Just Another Guy
Waiting To Get Lucky
You’re the rare kind, you have other interests besides her, and you let her earn it. How?
With your “attraction skills”, of course. What are attraction skills, you ask?
Well, consider this:
What do you call someone who looks like a soldier, talks like a soldier but with no soldier skills? I don’t know either. What I do know is when they send him to the battlefield, I bet you a donut he won’t know what to do.
Same goes with attraction skills.
Attraction skills will allow you to do what you have to do to get a girl attracted to you on the front lines of dating.
Maybe you’re thinking, “But, I don’t have any attraction skills!”
That’s no problem at all.
Like anything worth doing, you can learn them. That’s what this site is for. And I don’t believe you don’t have any attraction skills. You’ll know why in a minute.
For now, what you need to understand is you need to have these skills. Why?
The answer is simple.
Even if a girl happens to like what she sees and you pass that initial hurdle during those crucial split second, she won’t do anything about it… openly.
She’ll Be Subtle And Send
You These Hidden
You need to keep your radar sharp because you’re still stuck decoding all of her signals and it is still your role as “the man” to act on it if you recognize them for what they are — your “green light” to proceed with operation “get the girl”, while avoiding landlines and pitfalls.
Attraction skills will allow you to do that.
You will know if she’s interested. You will know what signs you can expect to see if a girl is attracted to you which, you won’t get to see if you’re not consciously uncovering them.
These signs will become obvious to you but hidden to the untrained eye.
And reading those signals is part of your attraction skills. If you’re oblivious to them, do you know what will happen? She’ll get cold, give up and move on.
This happens more often than you think.
All in all, if you don’t have the social and attraction skills, nothing happens eventually. You still go your separate ways even if you passed the initial hurdle.
Most of all, when you learn the skills of attracting women, you can make almost anything work, even the worse “pickup” lines you can think of. Even gibberish.
It won’t matter what you say to her. You can still make her open up to you. And get the girl. Isn’t that what you want?
So, where do you start?
Ah, that’s good question.
Attraction skills are just your good ol’ regular people skills with one goal in mind, to attract the fairer sex. If you have the social skills, all you need is the goal and the techniques and strategies to reach that goal.
And there you have it.
Attraction skills are your attraction-specific and women-getting social skills.
So, you start by taking a look at what you have and what you don’t have. Take a look at what you can and can’t do right now, what you’re lacking, where you’re weak at, what you need to improve, what part of the road of attraction you’re stumbling.
Knowing your own personal stumbling block that’s hindering you from attracting women is always a good place to start.
Is it your conversation, approaching and opening, phone and texting, something else?
Whatever it is, you can be sure you can get better at it if you have the right source of information. More on this later.
For now, let me give you some…
More How To Attract Women Tips
… so you have something you can use on the next girl you meet.
Here they are:
Smile. A simple smile can make you attractive and really makes dramatic difference in how the people you meet respond to you.
But here’s something you might not know about:
Flashing your smile easily makes you insincere. It’s like you’re giving it away to just anyone. So instead of doing that, reveal your smile slowly like she’s earned it.
Doing this will make you much… more authentic.
Make eye contact. Hold her gaze a little longer. Studies have shown doing this will make you more dominant and powerful, warm and personable, attractive and likable, competent and valuable, trustworthy, honest, and sincere, confident and emotionally stable.
That’s a lot for just extending your gaze by a couple of seconds and, not looking away before she does. So, combine it with your smile… and you’re instantly more attractive. And did I mention it also projects massive confidence?
Tease her and make her laugh. Be fun so she can relax. You’ll find women will want to be around you more. This is part of your conversational skills and shows you can be confident in any social situation.
Speak in a deep voice. It’s more attractive to women. And women can tell a lot about you by the way you sound and the way you talk to them.
Relax your body posture. Keep cool and collected. Women will find you much more attractive if you appear to have the ability to be calm in times of crisis.
Listen: A desirable woman wants a desirable man.
And a desirable woman will not consider a man who she thinks is lower than her.
So, become the man you want to be; a man with a challenging and exciting life women are naturally attracted to. And conduct your life in a way that makes you feel good about yourself.
Become a Badass at Attracting Women – An overview of the step-by-step process of attracting women so you’ll know what to do first and what to do next.
What Attracts Women to Men – A list qualities and traits most women find attractive in men so you can be more attractive to women.
The Tao of Badass – Everything you have to know to become a badass with women.
How to Make Girls Chase – Lets you focus on the fundamentals first before you can become a ‘romancer’ and a ‘seducer’ so you can have girls chase you.
The 4 Elements of Game – One of the best book on picking up girls and helps you attract the girls you really want.