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Trying and failing is better than doing nothing at all.
So if you fail with women, don’t feel sorry about it. It’s part of the learning process.
To get the most of it, however, you have to know why you fail with women.
You can’t just keep failing and failing all the time when these reasons are fixable or avoidable.
You can start getting better and enjoy consistent success with women today!
To know why you fail with women, you need to look at what mistakes you’re doing with women right now.
Why are you messing up when you meet a woman who you could’ve turned into your next girlfriend.
Your intentions
What you’re thinking. And what you’re feeling when you’re trying to attract women.
The little things that hardly anyone notices.
Although you may think they’re small, they have a big effect on why you fail with women.
And if you don’t want to keep failing, you gotta start small.
One of those small things is what you’re after.
It doesn’t seem much but if it’s clear that you’re after something from her, there’s a good chance you’ll fail to get whatever it is you’re after.
You see, if it’s obvious that you’re desperate for her affection, you send to her this creepy vibe that repels her away from you.
And most of the time, she’ll be running or pushing you away from her.
So don’t be desperate. Be cool about it.
Showing you’re interested in her is fine as long as she has earned it. In other words, be a challenge.
Know how to make her impress you and get you interested in her.
Of course, not everything will go your way, and that’s just how life is.
So don’t chase after it.
However, that doesn’t mean that you should give up too easily when a woman starts losing interest.
Giving up
You have to learn to stay in there and not give up!
The men who are successful with women keeps flirting and keeps moving the interaction forward–until the close.
Of course, you should also know when it’s a good idea to leave and exit gracefully. However, if it’s just a bit of quiet time in the conversation, with a bit of awkwardness, stay.
If you start doubting yourself, you simply need to change the way you think.
If you find it hard to keep calm around beautiful women, just assume she wants you and believe it.
Not only will this change of mind give you a boost in confidence, this will also make the women you talk to smile and giggle when they talk with you.
This is how small changes in mindset can gain you remarkable results with women.
Being present
A lot of the reason why men fail with women is based on chasing after something when you should be focusing on the interaction and on the girl you’re interacting with.
It’s about being mindful of the situation you’re in and not caring about anything else.
If she says ‘Yes’, be cool about it. If she says ‘No’, be cool about it, too.
Doesn’t matter what she says, you just be cool about it.
You’ll improve a lot and learn a lot just by observing and progressing the conversation. You’ll also lessen your failures and gain more successes.
Lack of social skills
It’s going to be difficult navigating the complexities of dating if you don’t have the necessary skills and social experience.
If you don’t put yourself out there and interact with others, you won’t have the chance to observe and learn.
You need to take some risk and and push yourself to start conversations.
Sure, it will feel uncomfortable at first but each step outside your comfort zone will make you grow and confident.
Keep improving
Know that there are certain steps you need to take to be succesful with women. Embrace the process.
Yes, this is a process that require certain skill sets that any guy can learn and master.
Most guys are content at ignoring their problems with women by distracting themselves instead of seeking a solution.
And the longer they ignore the reasons why they fail with women, the longer they have to put up with being lonely and frustrated.
You’re obviously different from them; you know the possibilities that exists as you improve your skills with women.
It doesn’t even matter if you have failed with one or countless women in the past.
The door is open and all you have to do is get in!
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