You did the right things; you followed the plan.
You’ve reset your relationship with the girl you really want. You’ve changed her perception of you from being “just a friend”, a colleague, or classmate to something more.
You have reached the most important final step to get out of the friend zone.
You’re almost there.
The final step to leave the friend zone
So, let’s say…
You’ve invited her for coffee or drinks or whatever. Doesn’t matter.
What’s important is that now you’re alone with her, you’re face to face. You’ve been presented with a chance to make your move.
You must be nervous. You’re afraid you’ll ruin things. You’re scared you’ll get rejected.
I’m pretty sure, if it’s with any other girl, you won’t be feeling this way. But because this is the girl you really want, you just can’t afford to mess things up.
You want to make sure she ends up as your girlfriend.
And to make sure that happens, you gotta do this final step because this step will…
Solidify your relationship with her
That makes this final step critical in getting out of the friend zone or getting into any man-woman relationship. If you want to make her your girlfriend, do this as soon as you get the chance.
You see, what most guys do is wait. There’s really nothing wrong with that until some other guy comes along and sweeps her off her feet.
That’s like having your obnoxious roommate come in, sees the food you’re about to put in your mouth, grabs it and gobbles it all up, leaving nothing behind.
That would be funny… if it happens to someone else.
This final step is not having a serious talk about your feelings or spending time with her to get affection and asking her to be your girlfriend.
No, you can do that later. You’ll have all the time when she’s already your girlfriend. Now is not the time.
Let me give you an example.
I remember this girl whom I spent a lot of time with. We went to movies, drinks, etc, And even though we shared many moments together, it didn’t make us ‘that’ close because I didn’t do the final step with her.
Then there’s this one other girl whom I didn’t spend that much time with but I did the final step with her. In the end, she keeps calling me until I made things clear.
That’s the difference doing this step can make.
Other than it makes you feel really good due to the release of dopamine, which activates the reward center of the brain… it is scientifically proven that it helps create an emotional bond with the person you’re doing it with.
You know what I’m talking about, right?
So what’s the first thing you need to accomplish?
How to go from friendly to intimate
First, you need to change the friendly vibe between the two of you to a more sexual one and give your interactions a sexual vibe.
This is where you use sexual escalation to slowly make things sexual so that every advance you make is comfortable and natural while you create sexual tension.
What creates sexual tension?
Here’s a few:
Eye contact: The kind of look that says ‘I want you.’
Proximity: Being physically close to her so you’re close enough to touch. Invade her personal space.
Sexual innuendo: Misinterpret stuff she says and makes it sound sexual.
Touch: Not the friendly, social touch, but a more intimate, “from a man to a woman” kind of touch.
These create opportunities where you can smoothly transition and “going in for the kiss” just feels natural.
That’s sexual tension!
Actually, you don’t need to make big bold moves like going for the kiss where there’s a risk of obvious rejection.
But you do have to make a move after you’ve set the sexual vibe, so you can make your intentions known. You have to go for it so that what you want is clear to her.
When have made your intentions abundantly clear to a girl with your body language, touch, and words, you will find that she will be very receptive to your advances.
Even if she rejects your initial advance, she knows that you desire her, and that arouses her both physically and psychologically.
So… after you’ve set a sexual vibe and diffused any awkwardness that can lead to any resistance, get her into a private, intimate setting, and go for it.
In other words, lead her to your place and make love to her.
Make that move
That’s the final step done. In no time, she’ll be your girlfriend.
Then again, that’s easier said than done.
How to escalate without rejection
If you fear to fail after getting so close and don’t want to get openly rejected, there’s good news for you because there is a way to sexually escalate without her realizing you’re doing it.
She won’t know you’re sexually escalating with her, so she won’t be able to say ‘no.’ She won’t be able to reject you because she’s not really sure what you’re doing. And you can try as many times as you like and your chances of doing it multiplies.
Even if it doesn’t work, it’s no big deal.
You can just try again and again until you get her.
That’s the beauty of Invisible Escalation which Chris “Sixty” of Automatic Seduction calls the dirty little secret of guys that are good with women.
Learn more about it from the video interview that comes as a free bonus from Unlock Her Legs where he talks about two tactics to sexually escalate under the radar which gives you unlimited chances to turn her on.
But, what if the girl is still not responding the way you want her to?
You know that answer to that: keep going!
Eventually, you will get this girl into bed and the girl you really want will end up as your girlfriend.
Note: Research the female anatomy if you lack sexual experience.
Still here? You are awesome!
Since You Made It This Far…
This tells me that you’re serious about improving your situation with that lovely girl that’s been running laps in your head.
So I saved most of the advanced stuff — used by the best seducers — for serious guys like you. It’s a series of tips and secrets you can use almost immediately.
I’ll wait for you inside.
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