Even if you are not actually desperate, you want to avoid looking desperate. Why?
For one, it will not help in attracting any girl.
In fact, any guy acting desperate makes him more like a creep, and most women won’t want to be near that kind of guy.
If someone’s vibe is creepy or makes women uncomfortable or anxious for seemingly no reason, he will raise alarm bells ringing through her gut, and promptly avoid him.
Some women’s creepy guy radar is sensitive and easily triggered.
So if some guy gets identified as a creepy guy, she goes on high alert, her shields go up, and swords are drawn.
You can’t blame her.
It’s a woman’s natural reaction to feel safe and comfortable.