When you want to pick up girls, you either want to take her home (or somewhere where you two can be together) or get her phone number so you can meet up again later. These are the outcome you want, right?

So how do you get there?

But before that, you got to prepare yourself. What do you need? Well, at least be presentable. And have an air of confidence.

You won’t get noticed if you don’t have at least those qualities. That’s the minimum requirement. So let’s get it on…

First, you need to be able to approach when you see a girl you want to pick up. Failing to do this won’t even get you started. You’ll be just another bystander staring at her.

If only it was as easy as 1-2-3. Wait. It’s as easy as that.

You just ignore what ever is stopping you from going over there and start talking to her. You may be afraid or nervous that you’ll say something stupid but that doesn’t matter.

What matters is you’ve done it and you’ve got over your fear of taking the initiative and talking to her.

Now, let’s assume you’ve blurted out something and she’s now facing you — hopefully, — what do you do now?

This is where the fun starts. What you want now is to hold her attention, get her interested in what you want to say, so she’ll know what you want.

There’s no point in getting her to face you and then getting ignored after two seconds, right?

Then how do you do just that? A really good way is to make her laugh. That works most of the time. And you’re giving her some positive emotions which is what you want so she’ll remember you after this initial interaction.

If you can’t make her laugh, don’t sweat it. More often than not, if you’ve prepared well, she’ll be intrigued by what you have to say. Or she’s actually a nice, sweet girl who’ll listen to what you want to say to her.

Most girls are nice and social. Not every girl you’ll meet are bitchy and rude. But if they are, don’t be fooled. Most of the time, they’re just covering their sweet side and filtering out losers.

Anyway, you need to keep the conversation flowing and natural from here on out. And if you follow these steps completely, it’s just smooth sailing. If you’ve done everything right, you’ll have her hand or her number by the end of the pick up.