Breaking up with a woman can be a tough experience to go through, especially if you’ve been together with her for a long time and you know each other quite well. Sometimes it’s emotional and messy with lots of noises and flying objects.

But there are times when there’s mutual understanding that you need to go your separate ways. Doesn’t happen all the time, and even if it does, doesn’t mean it’s easy for both of you.

One things for sure, if you’ve already decided to break up with a girl, you gotta do it right and leave her better than when you met her. Although it’s still possible to get your ex back after some time off, but when you’re the one who’ve broken off with her it’s unlikely you’ll want her back or even a good idea.

So if you’re dead set on breaking up with a woman, and you’re certain your relationship can’t be saved, don’t wait for something unpleasant to happen before break up with her.

Don’t be an ass. End the relationship with her doing as little emotional damage as possible.

Get her out to spend a few hours or minutes with you so you can tell in front of her personally. I know it’s hard but it’s the only right way to do it. It’s not a manly thing to break up with her on the phone or email.

And make sure she hears it from you first. Don’t talk about it to her friends where she can find out about it and things will start to get really messy and nasty.

Before you get to tell her, or even before you meet her, be sure you’re calm and relaxed. You want to be able to tell her clearly the truth about why you’re ending the relationship with her. You don’t have to make things complicated and drag things out one after another.

Just keep things simple and focused on your reasons for breaking up with her and ending the relationship.

Break up with her on the right time and place where you won’t be interrupted while talking. Avoid times when it’s a celebration where you’ll ruin a perfectly good day and make it worse every year.

Now, expect her to be angry, yelling, or sad. It’s perfectly fine to let her feel these emotions during this time. Let her do this now and don’t let her hold anything back. Don’t argue with her and let her release what’s on her chest.

Don’t take too long. It’s better to keep things short and let her cry if she wants. You’ve made your decision to break up with her and now it’s done.