She’s laughing at your jokes, she’s touching you, and you’re having a good time with her but you’re not quite sure if she’s just being friendly or flirting with you.
Well, if you know her personality and you’ve known her for a while, you’ll be able to tell whether she’s flirting with you or not.
But what about a new girl you’ve just met? If you misread her being friendly as flirting, it can get awkward quickly. You’ll be embarrassed to face her and do anything about the current situation. And get discouraged from getting your expectations crushed at the same time.
But don’t feel down so much, the situation is not as hopeless as you think. If she’s talking and paying attention to you and actually having fun with you, and you can still attract her stir her neutral feelings of affection towards you.
But before that, you got to know whether she’s not yet attracted or flirting by reading the signs and paying attention to her body language. You have to really observe her to do this. Watch for every little thing and don’t take anything for granted.
Like her eyes. It’s easy to tell if a girl is interested in you if you look at her eyes. From the ways she looks at you, to how long her gaze remains at you. And the effect of your presence will be reflected in her eyes no matter how subtle that signal may be.
And depending on the situation, if you can’t think of any other reason why she should be friendly with you other than fact that you’re a great guy who she can’t help but like and flirt with, odds are she really likes you.
But if you think about it and there’s a reason that she might be just trying to be nice and friendly, you got to back up a little and see what’s happening. Observe just a little bit longer or turn things to your favor if you’ve got the skills to do so.
One thing that can definitely tell if she’s the naturally friendly type is to watch how she interacts with other people and how she is with her friends. If she’s not doing any flirting like she does with you, then you’ll know the deal.
Otherwise, if she’s a flirt with everyone and got your hopes up for nothing, you’ll know what to do next. And that’s to either raise your value and attract her if you’re still interested, or just let it go and enjoy yourself with other girls.
Either way, don’t linger. Attract women.