Dave A. 
As you may already know, having a casual conversation during the day is very different to picking up girls at night.
During the day, you can be as easy going and casual as you want. You can start a natural conversation, and chat about anything you want. It has a relaxing feel to it.
You’ll have more options, too.
This was something that’s been passed around some time before. Unfortunately, the name of the author (probably a woman) got lost during all those passing around.
Attraction can happen quickly.
It can start as a tiny little spec and grows into something heavy and, large enough to block anyone’s view of the world.
It can start off as an innocent interests or a massive gravitational pull of intense wanting and sexual desire for another person.
Even if you are not actually desperate, you want to avoid looking desperate. Why?
For one, it will not help in attracting any girl.
Shy guys have it tough when it comes to dating.
I know, personally, because I’m one of those shy, quiet guys. Social interactions can be draining. And I’d rather avoid socializing than struggle with meeting new people. The awkward silences are simply killers.
But it doesn’t have to be that way.
Women love men who can make them laugh.
Cocky comedy is one of the basic principles taught in Double Your Dating by David D. If you haven’t read it yet, I suggest you pick it up somewhere and give it a look.
Cocky comedy works simply because it takes advantage of how attraction is rooted on emotions women feel at certain moments. And if you’re the one who makes her “feel” those emotions, the attraction she felt will be directed to you.
You gotta remember, attraction is not logical and, it’s not a choice.