Tag: self-esteem

How to Avoid Looking Desperate

There’s nothing that makes a guy more creepy and surrounds himself with dark clouds of miasma than looking and acting desperate.

If you look desperate and don’t want to make every woman in the nearby vicinity move away from you in horror…

… you have to avoid looking so desperate all the time. And it’s simple and easy to do, too. Just apply yourself to make some changes and you’ll soon see brighter days.

You know what desperation can do to you, right?

It makes you do things you’ll regret. And, generally, makes you unattractive to women.

You see, if you’re desperate, you’ll be trying too hard to get her to like you. And you many even lie about some things to impress her. And that’s not how it’s done if you want to attract women.

That won’t end good for you. It doesn’t help. Not at all.

So, what do you need to do then to avoid looking so desperate? Well, you gotta focus on the one that’s basically causing you all this desperation.

It’s your mindset. It affects everything you do and what everyone thinks of you.

That’s why you gotta change your way of thinking. It all starts there, inside your mind. That’s why PUA’s call it “Inner Game”.

And there’s an inner game concept called the abundance mentality.

If you adopt this mindset of having abundance, you’ll never look desperate again. Ever.

What does it mean to have abundance? That’s simple. You just believe in yourself that there are an abundance of everything in your life.

Women are everywhere. If one girl doesn’t like you, you move on. It’s that easy.

Since there’s another girl out there waiting to talk to you, why would you feel desperate about someone who won’t give you a second of her time? You won’t.

You see, if you know how to attract women and you can use your body language right, the experience will keep rolling in and, you’ll experience true abundance.

You’ll eliminate all feelings of desperation in your life. Guaranteed!

Simple Cures for Shyness

If you’re shy, the thought of approaching a girl you don’t know so you can talk to her and make her like you, might have never crossed your mind.

You’re thinking you can’t because you’ll only embarrass yourself in front of her. Am I right?

Most of the time, shyness gets in the way of expressing yourself.

You already know you’re a great guy deep within, but being shy restricts your movements from fully letting yourself loose.

And if you’re like that, you’ll miss a lot of things in life. You won’t be able to form new relationships easily, finding a job will become difficult, and you’ll have a tough time dealing with most people.

What that means is, if you don’t cure your shyness, it will impede your social, professional and personal life. You won’t be able to fully enjoy yourself.

If you don’t come out of your shell, you won’t hear the music and feel the warmth of the sun.

And yes, you don’t have to stay that way, if you choose to cure yourself of shyness. It doesn’t happen overnight, but if you take it a step at a time, you’ll be different and feel different when your shyness is but a thin veil blocking your path.

You have a couple of choices.

If you’re the analytic type, you can take a step back and see what causes your shyness.

Why do you fear interacting with people? When you find the cause, you can make a clear decision to do something about it.

If you don’t like how you look, you can improve your appearance. If you can’t talk well with other people. you can improve your conversation skills. If it’s something that happened in the past, you can try to get over it and move on.

You see, getting over your shyness is just about expanding your comfort zone. Think of your zone as a circle around you. What shyness is doing is holding it back from ever expanding.

It’s easier to mingle with people who you already know but, when it comes to creating new friendships with a new face, that’s gonna be something outside your comfort zone. You’ll may feel a bit uncomfortable and won’t know what to do quite yet.

When you’re on the boundary of your comfort zone, and you have to practice dealing with those kinds of situations to make yourself comfortable.

Meet as many people as you can. If you do, you won’t feel that uncomfortable feeling anymore.

In fact, you’ll feel really good, and meeting people will feel very natural to you. Even pretty girls you’d never think of talking to before, you’ll find easier to get a conversation going with her.

And you’ll be having the time of your life.

Your shyness will become a thing of the past. Your confident will grow even more, and your insecurities and doubts will go up in smoke if you can prove to yourself that you can do it.

Listen: Curing your shyness is about loving yourself and trusting yourself more. If you can be confident and comfortable with yourself, you’ll have a healthy social interactions and you’ll fully enjoy your life.

How to Be Confident

If you have no confidence in self, you are twice defeated in the race of life.Confidence is attractive. You already know you need to be confident to attract women. And to be successful at anything in life.

If every time you talk to a woman you like, you get cold sweats, stutter, or fall apart, you have to improve your confidence.

On the contrary, imagine what a confident man looks like. What can he do with that confidence? What’s he able to achieve? Now, put yourself in that man’s shoes. How would you feel?

By the time you’re through reading this, you should have an idea on how to be confident around women. You won’t get nervous around them. And you’ll be able to approach a random girl anywhere.

Here’s how you can…

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