It’s natural to feel a fear if you think you’ll be getting rejected. But you need to overcome this fear of rejection if you want to be able to approach and attract women.
When you think about it, this fear of rejection you’re feeling is only in your mind. It hasn’t happen yet. And you’ll never know whether she’ll reject your approach or be ecstatic that you did if you don’t overcome this fear.
Of course, rejection is part of the “game”. It wouldn’t be fun if everything goes well every time you try to open a girl and start a conversation.
But most of the time, it goes well. That’s because most women are social and they like being approached by great guys who know what they’re doing.
That’s right, if you’re a great guy and you know what you’re doing when you meet and attract girls, you’ll minimize your chances of getting rejected.
But this is not about that, this is about overcoming your fear of rejection. And there’s a couple of things you can do.
The first is to move forward in spite of that fear you’re currently feeling. It’s the most effective way and it’s the fastest and surest way to go.
If you understand that there’s always a chance of rejection no matter what you do, that rejection won’t matter. It will only serve as fuel for future approaches and a step in your ladder for gaining experience.
If you face rejection head on, it’s almost certain nothing can stop you from getting to know that girl.
Another way to overcome this fear is using a punishment and reward.
You can reward yourself every time you overcome this fear and meet the girl. And you can set a penalty if you don’t do it and you succumb to this fear of rejection.
If you’re with someone — a buddy or your wing — you can ask him to slap you hard if you didn’t do anything while you’re feeling this fear.
Overcoming the fear of rejection from approaching and meeting women is essential if you want to be able to attract any woman you want.
It doesn’t matter if you do it slowly or quickly. What matters is your overcome it and you continue to grow.