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How To Approach A Mixed Group Of Girls and Guys

how to approach a mixed group of girls and guys

You’re with some friends–two guys, one female, and two other girls you only know a little. Let’s just say they’re friends of friends.

You’re out socializing and having a good time when… a guy walks towards your group and starts a conversation with your female friend.

You can’t hear their conversation or what they’re saying but… you can tell he’s not asking for direction to the bathroom.

Time passes.

A couple of minutes later, as you glance back over, you see this guy still there talking to your female friend.

He’s hitting on her. He must be!

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Do You Fear Approaching Women, Too?

do you fear approaching women

You shouldn’t!

Sure. Walking up to a girl and starting a conversation with her can be very uncomfortable, daunting, even scary.

Just the thought of it can trigger flight or fight response if you haven’t done it before.

But once you’ve done it enough, you’ll be like a fish in the sea.


Why is approaching women one of the biggest fears most guys have when it comes to interacting with women?

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How to Deal With Rejection

Rejection is a normal part of approaching and attracting women, so the earlier you know how to deal with it, the easier it will get for you to overcome the fear rejection.

You can deal with rejection in a number of ways. Use the one that works for you best.

But the sooner you recover from being devastated, the better your chances are of meeting and approaching more women. Whether it’s your first or your thousandth rejection, learning how to deal with it every time it comes, will save you the trouble of getting stuck in a downward spiral.

There’s some things that you should never do, though, when you just got rejected by a woman you’ve just approach. And that is to never show that you’re affected in front of her either by throwing a fit or getting angry at her for being a bitch.

If there’s nothing you can do about the situation, better leave it alone while there’s still a chance to recover quickly and move on. Don’t let things affect you emotionally so you don’t carry it to your next approach.

If you can, immediately find a new girl to talk to so you don’t linger in the moment you got rejected. When you immediately move on, the effect of the rejection will almost be non-existent.

Doesn’t even matter who you talk to next as long as you don’t remember being rejected. And you don’t mope around and think about what you did wrong or why you got rejected. You can do that later on when you get the time to reflect back on your actions calmly.

You can look at the bright side, too.

Since you got rejected you don’t have to waste your time with a girl who you’re not compatible with. And you can spend your time wisely trying to attract a woman who’ll show you some interests.

Everyone goes through rejection, even those guys who have been at the game for years. They know how to deal with it and move on.

Focus on what you’ll do next instead of wallowing on your current disappointment. This will keep you to look forward instead of looking behind and thinking what ifs.

How to Talk to Women During the Day

Talking to women during the day is not the same during the night.

At night, the usual meeting place happens in bars and clubs where there’s loud music playing, a lot of background noise, and the energy level is much, much higher. You’re usually pumped and jumping and dancing when you talk to girls at night.

It’s very different during the day. In the day time, talking to women happens mostly in the streets, coffee shops, bookstores, train stations, and other public places where the vibe is more relaxed and casual.

Also, the women are in their natural state, not in their dolled-up and definitely not in their pretty night dress. They’re more likely going somewhere, most likely work or school, and they’re busy.

So, you got to make the approach direct and not waste any of their time.

You have to get their attention fast, and keep it as long as you’re interacting with her. Don’t pay attention to anyone who’s watching or what’s happening with other people. Don’t get distracted.

Once you’re talking to her, keep in mind that what you do to talk to girls at night might be successful during the night but may not work at all during the day.

But, you still got to lead and take the conversation to where you want it to go.

Use statements instead of questions at the right time so you can keep her talking about herself more. And listen and take in the conversation to raise her interest level in you.

The conversation can happen really quickly, you’ll have just around ten minutes to get her attracted and build some rapport. It helps if you’re playful and your approach is well thought of while making it feel natural and spontaneous.

You can compliment and tease her lightly. Not as much during the night, though. And the physical contact can almost be non-existent. Just some handshake or friendly hug will often be normal.

You need to get her investing early on. Ask her open-ended questions once you know she’s interested in the interaction. Even if she asks you a question, answer it quickly and then bring the conversation back to her.

If you don’t know how to get her attention, the opening to use, the question to ask her to get her to invest in the interaction, daygame blueprint should help you with all of that and more.

How To Meet Women

If you’re not meeting women… then you’re simply not putting yourself out there. You’re not going out. And you’re not interacting with people other than your regular peers.

Here’s what I think: You probably already know some good ways to introduce new women into your life, right?

Like going online… talking to strangers (cold approaching them)… meeting women through friends (or your social circle)… meeting women through a common activity (gym, cooking class)… and some other creative ways (like using your cute dog to make women notice).

But how do you really…

meet and connect with a woman?

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How to Approach Women

how to approach women

“Hey, How long are you going to stand there and stare?”

If you ever wanted to approach a random cute girl and start a conversation with her but couldn’t… then you’re about to learn how to approach women… anytime… anywhere.

Approaching women, if you break it down, if you look at it from a detached perspective, is easy. After all, you just need to take the first step and continue until you’re close enough to talk.

Close enough to get her attention, if you don’t have it already, and then you start the conversation with her.

That simple act of walking towards her is the hardest part. Why?

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