Ever had the experience where you’re close enough to talk to a woman but nothing comes to mind of what to say to her… not a single thought or word comes into your mind even though you want to say something to her so badly.
What do you say to women in these types of situations?
A simple ‘Hi’ would suffice, right? Then what? You’ll need something to continue and make the conversation longer. If you don’t, you’ll be left in obscurity and she won’t remember that you were even there.
For one thing, you can’t really talk to her the way you intend to if you’re not relaxed and having fun.
If you feel nervous and don’t feel confident enough, you’ll most likely end up not getting any conversation going.
Having the fun and confident vibe starts the moment you walk out the door of your home. Although you can have a few warmup conversations, it’s better to be feeling confident from the start.
If you feel good, and said ‘Hello’ to her, you can always continue with a question. More specifically an open-end question. Don’t ask something that she can easily answer by either ‘Yes’ or ‘No’. You want something that probes her about herself and see what she’s like.
Get her talking about herself.
Nothing is easier for you than getting to listen to her talk. So ask good questions and ask her explain in detail her answers to your questions. If you don’t know what kind of questions to ask, find out what to talk about with a girl.
Ask her something about herself, her family, her passion. Ask her something that will make her think deeply before answering your question. These questions can lead into an entire conversation on their own where you can just look at her and listen.
If you can ask her interesting questions, you’ll never have a hard time thinking about what to say to a woman. To get to know her on a deeper level, ask follow up questions that will make her emotionally bond with you.
Now, you can’t just ask questions after questions. You should share something about yourself, too. When she answers a question, listen for clues where you know something and talk to her about it. It’s that simple.
If you’re having a fun and relaxing conversation, your time with her will just flow naturally. It won’t matter if there’s some silence because it won’t feel uncomfortable at all. That way you won’t be thinking about what to say to women, you’ll just let the conversation take it’s natural course.