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Is She Shy or Not Interested?

Sometimes, you meet a girl who’s not giving you anything to work on to know whether she’s shy or just not interested. And that can make you feel like what you’re doing is not working.

Or make you confused whether you should continue attracting her, or just move on and find another girl to talk to.

But if you’re like most guys, who can’t accurately read her body language, you’ll say goodbye and lose your chance to get to know her more.

Though if it’s clear that she’s ignoring you no matter what you do, better get out of there before you lose your mind talking to a rock. But if she’s showing something, maybe a little gaze, a shy smile, something that can be considered a response, you may still have a chance.

How do you know she’s shy?

Well, you’ll see that she’s a little uncomfortable with what’s happening. If she’s not used to getting approached by a great guy like you, she won’t be able to look you directly in the eye.

Even if it does happen, she’ll immediately look away so fast you won’t get the chance to see her eyes carefully. This is due to her nervousness, so she’ll just glance at you from time to time when you’re talking.

This will show in the way her whole body moves, not just her eyes. She’ll look like she can’t settle down and move around a little bit. Then she’ll play and fix accessories and twiddle her little fingers.

And, if she starts to blush, you’ve got a live one ready to be pulled carefully.

When you see her blush, you shouldn’t miss that chance to move things forward as you watch for other signs that she’s interested in you.

Take note of where she’s looking and the direction of her body parts, whether she’s leaning in or facing away from you. Compare that to someone who’s completely ignoring your moves and you’ll know if she’s shy or totally not interested.

You could also watch her from a distance, and see how she deals with her friends and other people. That’s another option, if you have the time.

Signs She Is Interested

There are a lot of tell-tale signs that indicate whether a girl is interested in you are not.

Sometimes it’s very obvious, but most of the time it’s very subtle due to certain social circumstances and cultural programming.

One thing is for sure, it exists. And the moment you notice the signs that says she’s interested in you, you have to take action and don’t let it pass like most guys do in those situations if you want to meet and get to know her. That’s may only be your window of opportunity.

Don’t waste it.

It’s good that you noticed them in the first place, and that puts you already way above the crowd. Well, the choice is still yours whether you want to approach her or not.

What are these signs?

It’s a given if she’s looking in your direction and smiling. You can clearly tell it’s an invitation to approach her and start a conversation. That signal is strong enough for most guys to start an interaction.

You just have to be observant of your surroundings and always on the lookout for quick glances and the occasional “look”. Of course, you can initiate this yourself, and see how she’ll react. You’ll usually know if she’s interested in meeting you in those few precious seconds.

Most of these “come hither” signals almost always involve the eyes combined with something to catch your attention like fixing her hair, putting makeup, and/or fixing her posture.

These are often very subtle and she’ll do this if she knows you’re looking and if she’s interested in you. These are what most guys often miss because they’re really small movements and most men don’t know they’re signs of interests.

A lot of these signs of interests are detailed in Undercover Sex Signals. You’ll be able to get a more detail explanation from there and I suggest you take a look at it and some other body language books and materials to give you a clearer picture of what to look for.

Signs Of Attraction From Women

If you can’t read the signs that an already attracted women is giving up, there’s a high chance you’ll lose that attraction and you won’t be able to move forward.

Well, these signs of attraction should be very obvious to someone paying attention to her body language and actions. But to someone nervous and don’t know what he’s doing, these signs will be invisible.

Anyway, here’s what you want to look out for that show she’s attracted to you. These apply to a woman who you’ve been talking to for a while.

She’s responding to your questions and continues the conversation. If you stop talking and she re-initiates the conversation, you’ve got a live one here. Get things moving to where you want to go and lead from there.

She’s smiling and laughing to you jokes no matter how lame or cheesy it is. If you jokes are lame and she still laughs, that’s an obvious sign she’s got some attraction towards you. Quickly move to the next step.

She’s touching you first or she returns your touches. That’s another clear sign of interest from her. Escalate and see where it goes. Most guys stop which is what you don’t want to do if you’re in the right location.

These are just some of the really obvious ones. If you want the super-detailed picture of a woman’s sure sign of attraction like body positioning, subtle movements, and eye cues, I won’t include those here. Those are just way too many to cover in a single article.

Instead, check out this book. It covers most of signs of attraction from women in a fun to read and exciting format. You won’t get bored and you’ll learn a lot.

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