Sometimes, you meet a girl who’s not giving you anything to work on to know whether she’s shy or just not interested. And that can make you feel like what you’re doing is not working.
Or make you confused whether you should continue attracting her, or just move on and find another girl to talk to.
But if you’re like most guys, who can’t accurately read her body language, you’ll say goodbye and lose your chance to get to know her more.
Though if it’s clear that she’s ignoring you no matter what you do, better get out of there before you lose your mind talking to a rock. But if she’s showing something, maybe a little gaze, a shy smile, something that can be considered a response, you may still have a chance.
How do you know she’s shy?
Well, you’ll see that she’s a little uncomfortable with what’s happening. If she’s not used to getting approached by a great guy like you, she won’t be able to look you directly in the eye.
Even if it does happen, she’ll immediately look away so fast you won’t get the chance to see her eyes carefully. This is due to her nervousness, so she’ll just glance at you from time to time when you’re talking.
This will show in the way her whole body moves, not just her eyes. She’ll look like she can’t settle down and move around a little bit. Then she’ll play and fix accessories and twiddle her little fingers.
And, if she starts to blush, you’ve got a live one ready to be pulled carefully.
When you see her blush, you shouldn’t miss that chance to move things forward as you watch for other signs that she’s interested in you.
Take note of where she’s looking and the direction of her body parts, whether she’s leaning in or facing away from you. Compare that to someone who’s completely ignoring your moves and you’ll know if she’s shy or totally not interested.
You could also watch her from a distance, and see how she deals with her friends and other people. That’s another option, if you have the time.