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When You Run Out Of Things To Say

When you run out of things to say, what comes after is silence.

And an expression of feeling lost and a sense of nervousness and uncertainty. You stutter and say filler words as she stares at you trying to understand what you’re saying.

Until she can’t take it anymore and says goodbye politely, leaving you disappointed but at the same time relieved that you get to live another day. And try again with another girl, and hopefully this time, you never run out of things to say.

Back up a bit, instead of losing hope when you run out of things to say… you could ask her a question — an open ended one — and let her speak. That takes the pressure off of you and you get to relax a little, maybe for a while if she’s got a lot to say.

Sometimes, you can just wait and say nothing.

Ride the silence and don’t feel uncomfortable about it. More often than not, she’ll start talking and move the conversation along.

She’ll take the floor while you think of things you can say to contribute to the conversation. You don’t have to force things to happen, it’ll naturally take its due course and you’ll be amazed at how well it goes.

That should be enough time to stir the conversation to where you want to take it. Maybe something that happened to you during the day or a funny story you just remembered. If you’ve polished your conversation skills, you’ll always have some interesting story to tell.

You’ll be able to pull out topics you know by heart while minding what to talk about with her. You’ll have it all in your head, and when or if ever the time comes that your brain comes up with nothing but air, you’ll have something handy to talk about.

But probably the best thing you can do when you run out of things to say is to not hold back. Whatever comes to your mind, don’t filter it and just let it come oozing out. Speak your mind no matter how bold you may think it is.

It’s worth talking about since your subconscious mind may have picked something up from your conversation with her that’s itching to get scratched.

So, when your run out of things to say, remember these tips well and continue the conversation as if nothing happened. Sooner or later, it won’t be a problem for you and you’ll wonder why it ever occurred in the first place.

What to Say to Women

Ever had the experience where you’re close enough to talk to a woman but nothing comes to mind of what to say to her… not a single thought or word comes into your mind even though you want to say something to her so badly.

What do you say to women in these types of situations?

A simple ‘Hi’ would suffice, right? Then what? You’ll need something to continue and make the conversation longer. If you don’t, you’ll be left in obscurity and she won’t remember that you were even there.

For one thing, you can’t really talk to her the way you intend to if you’re not relaxed and having fun.

If you feel nervous and don’t feel confident enough, you’ll most likely end up not getting any conversation going.

Having the fun and confident vibe starts the moment you walk out the door of your home. Although you can have a few warmup conversations, it’s better to be feeling confident from the start.

If you feel good, and said ‘Hello’ to her, you can always continue with a question. More specifically an open-end question. Don’t ask something that she can easily answer by either ‘Yes’ or ‘No’. You want something that probes her about herself and see what she’s like.

Get her talking about herself.

Nothing is easier for you than getting to listen to her talk. So ask good questions and ask her explain in detail her answers to your questions. If you don’t know what kind of questions to ask, find out what to talk about with a girl.

Ask her something about herself, her family, her passion. Ask her something that will make her think deeply before answering your question. These questions can lead into an entire conversation on their own where you can just look at her and listen.

If you can ask her interesting questions, you’ll never have a hard time thinking about what to say to a woman. To get to know her on a deeper level, ask follow up questions that will make her emotionally bond with you.

Now, you can’t just ask questions after questions. You should share something about yourself, too. When she answers a question, listen for clues where you know something and talk to her about it. It’s that simple.

If you’re having a fun and relaxing conversation, your time with her will just flow naturally. It won’t matter if there’s some silence because it won’t feel uncomfortable at all. That way you won’t be thinking about what to say to women, you’ll just let the conversation take it’s natural course.

Never Run Out of Things to Say

You’ll run out of things to say mostly if you’re nervous or you’re thinking of something else. If you’re not paying attention or listening to her, you’ll get your tongue tied and your brain will stop thinking about what to say next.

One secret to effortless conversation and never running out of things to say is if you’re passionate about something and you have endless information about the subject.

Someone who’s passionate and excited about something can talk and talk for hours without stopping. Ever met someone who just go on and on about a subject they’re really into? You’ll notice they never run out of things to say. They know almost everything about the subject.

And if you’re doing something exciting in your life, you can talk about it with excitement and enthusiasm. And your mind will keep working and finding out things you could say and explore.

You could talk about your life openly and make the girl you’re talking to drawn to you with excitement. You’ll never be boring and you won’t talk about anything boring. You don’t need to hide what you’re thinking because it’s mundane and not worth talking about.

If you have control of your life, you’ll have control of the conversation and the topics you can talk about. You can lead the interaction and take it to where you want it to go. That’s the control you want.

And even if you never run out of things to talk about, that doesn’t mean you should just talk and talk until she leaves. Let her talk and just listen to her.

Most of the time, she’ll have a ton of things to add to the conversation. Women likes to talk anyway and you should allow them where you attentively listen to them.

Listening helps you figure her out and find out things about her you’ll never know if you kept talking. It will also give you an idea what direction you should stir the conversation to.

It’s one of the simplest and easiest ways most guys ignore to never run out of things to say to a girl. If you want the conversation to flow naturally, listen. If you want to have a fun and engaging conversation with her, listen. That’s it.

If you don’t know how to listen, all the advanced conversation techniques you’ll learn will become almost useless when you need them the most.

What To Talk About With A Girl

If you think… you can talk to her about anything under the sun. You’re wrong. Why?

what to talk about with a girlBecause there are certain topics you don’t want to talk about too early in your first interaction with a girl or even on the first date.

There’s this rule that you shouldn’t talk about any sensitive topics or depressing subjects that will make the conversation awkward or too serious too early.

Certain topics can only be brought up after you’ve known each other for a while, so…

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