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3 Easy Ways to Tease (and Flirt With) Her

ways to tease and flirt

There are many reasons to tease but the one I like is teasing for fun and bonding.

Playful teasing strengthens the bond of closeness with a girl
while you’re amusing yourself and … definitely avoids being boring.

Because teasing makes you a fun, friendly and interesting man to be around.

Add humor and excitement to your conversation and you’ll be able to attract women easily.

With that in mind, one way is to tease her by challenging her in one way or another while displaying a leader-like trait.

Here’s how:

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Get a Girl’s Attention and Make Her Chase by Deflecting

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Ever had this experience before?

You meet a girl. You wanted to make a bit of connection so you start talking to her but, as the conversation goes on, you feel something doesn’t seem right.

She smiles and talks to you nicely and politely but… she’s not flirting back. And she’s proving hard to connect to.

It’s like she’s playing hard to get.

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Attracting Women by Being a Challenge

attracting women by being a challenge

Here’s a quick story:

Not that long ago, a guy was in a bar with his friends and, over the course of the night, their group somehow merged with another group of friends who he’d never met before.

Amongst this group, there were a couple of girls. They were very attractive and seemed really nice.

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How To Make Women Want You

Do you want to make women want you? Who doesn’t, right?

Well, if you want to know how to make women want you, you gotta get yourself busy for a while. If what you’re doing now ain’t working for you, you have to make some changes to what you’re currently doing.

You can only do so much to attract women with the time you have at certain moments that you have to be able to get into the action hot and ready. You need to remove any doubt you have within yourself.

Doubts that impede your ability to make women want you the moment they see you walking, talking, or just chilling. You see, dragging a ball of doubt chained at your ankle will slow you down big time.

You have to make it easier on yourself  — since you can — to make girls want you the moment they laid eyes on you. That only happens if you’re not dragging something heavy, slowing you down, and making you unattractive to the opposite sex.

And the first requirement to making women want you is to feel light as a feather that women will imagine seeing wings behind your back and a bright light that draws them in to have closer look at the man generating this energy.

That energy, what you commonly know as magnetic confidence, is essential to making girls want you. It’s the core power of attraction and keeps it working, pulling in every woman that gets close enough.

Yeah, you need to develop you inner confidence first and foremost.

Because that will open the door for you to new possibilities you never would have known without the confidence to move forward and push past your insecurities with women.

It will get you started to improve your conversation skill to make naturally-flowing conversation with women. And use the right kind of humor to get women unconsciously attracted to your personality.

Making women want you is not hard.

But it does take some getting used to. And you can only make women want you if you’re honestly wanted by other women. After that, the rest is easy and comes naturally.

You can blindfold yourself and things will still go your way. Women will be attracted and keep wanting you like you’re the best thing that ever happened to them.

How to Get Women to Chase You

If you want to get women to chase, first be someone that they want.

Embody all or many of the qualities women look for in a man, and be a man worth being chased by women. Then slowly let them have a taste of your value without giving them everything.

Well, that’s the idea in a really simple way most guys should be able to easily understand. And since it’s much, much better and fun to make women chase you, you’ll be having the time of your life when you can trigger a woman’s inner instinct to go for the chase.

And it’s not that hard, either, once you understand most of the concept of attracting women, and got yourself bathed with the needed traits of the man women wants.

Although that may take you some time, it’s worth it if you really want to get women to chase you.

After that comes the little things, the nuances of dangling the bait in front of her and pulling it just the right time. That’s why you don’t want to show her all your cards.

Be a little bit mysterious and make her think.

But don’t be too aloof like you’re hiding all your interest in her. You have to balance it out with just the right blend of challenge and showing interest. When I say challenge, you have to be able to set the stage where she’ll want you.

Don’t be a pushover who can easily be kicked out, instead be firm and confident when you stand your ground. Have a strong type of character while not being rude or bragging. Know that you have power when you need to do something.

And you don’t want to be too available for her.

Women don’t want someone who’s always available 24/7. You’re not a convenient store open all the time. You are a man who has important stuff going on his life and has a busy schedule.

And she would feel lucky to be included in that busy schedule.

To sum things up, if you want to get women to chase you even to the end of the world, just give her a good enough reason. And she’ll enjoy every moment of the chase as much as you do.

If you want something a little more detailed than that… go check this out.

How To Make Women Think About You

If you can make a women think about you most of time, and fill her mind with good thoughts of about you, you can be sure she’ll want you and try to get close to you.

She’ll want to talk to you or be giving off come hither signals in your direction.

You starts with giving off a good first impression which is only possible if you’re always presenting your best self. That’s taking care of yourself, and dressing appropriately — wearing comfortable, fitting clothes, and letting your unique sense of style show.

To the way you talk to her and how you interact with your surroundings and other people. It all adds up to how her first impression of you forms and settles.

If you can do all that without effort, you’ll be able to give her a good experience and something she won’t be able to forget anytime soon. Follow the steps to every successful interaction and she’ll be thinking of you, her mind filled with thoughts of your first encounter.

It’s doing everything right and recovering gracefully when you slip and stumble on your way to her mind. And after the initial attraction, keeping her aware of your existence, using your mobile phone to send her text messages that keeps the mating game going.

Now, it doesn’t matter how long you wait before you text or call her. What matters is you do it sooner rather than later (but not too soon and too often, the next day works for most). If you keep thinking about it or confused about how long you should wait, just let it go. It’s not that important.

Get busy and do something else. Meet other women and get their number so you’ll have other options and better chances of going out on a date on any specific day. Give the girl some space to miss you and let her anticipation build — if you did a solid job of attracting her.

And building a solid connection with her.

If you did that, she won’t be having time to rest while you’re on her mind running simulation and building attraction all on her own. And the next time you see, she’ll not only be happy but truly excited and pumped to spend time together with you.

Why Women Love Bad Boys

Do women really love bad boys?

Well, if you think about it or observe a little, bad boys have an irresistible effect to a certain type of women. While some women are wary of bad boys, those who love bad boys are attracted to the bad-ass charms and confidence a bad boy emanates.

A bad boy, the stereotypical one, moves like he owns the world. He’s cocky, often rude, and most of the time, doesn’t care about what other people think of him.

Now, most of these bad boy qualities are seen by other guys as not-so-good qualities to have, women on the other hand, sees something else. Many of the most powerful qualities women are looking for in a man can be found in a bad boy.

Namely, that massively-overflowing confidence reflected on a bad boys “don’t-give-a-fuck” attitude. We all know women loves a man with confidence, and bad boys show that when talking to women and other people, and all the other things he do with confidence.

He wouldn’t be able to move and do what he does if he’s not confident and cocky enough. And women are turned on by that brimming confidence bad boys have, showing that their manliness and masculinity.

And they aslo know what they want, and confidently takes it if they can. They’re in control of what they do and their bad boy way of life. And women likes that in man, a man who confidently takes care of everything in an exciting, wild, ans unpredictable way.

Bad boys give women excitement, and takes them on adventures which women can’t get enough of. They’re intrigued by his way of life — always pushing things forward and never bogged down by every little thing. They don’t make excuses and just do what they want.

It makes life a mystery for their woman since no one knows what tomorrow will bring or where she’ll be taken. Women just can’t seem to read them and that challenges them. And since bad boys are no pushover, it sends women in a dizzying ride of their life.

And with all the things women love about bad boys, add to that their “don’t care” attitude and you have someone who doesn’t care if he gets rejected or not. He just simply moves on to the next girl without batting an eye.

This take it or leave it attitude is what most guys lack and should definitely adopt if they want to get good at attracting women. That’s how bad boys can get enough experience with women and quickly get good at talking to them.

And since women are already interested in what they’re seeing, they’ll be open to his approaches. She’ll be challenged and intrigued, and the next thing you know, she’s in his arms walking towards the sunset together.

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