You’ll run out of things to say mostly if you’re nervous or you’re thinking of something else. If you’re not paying attention or listening to her, you’ll get your tongue tied and your brain will stop thinking about what to say next.
One secret to effortless conversation and never running out of things to say is if you’re passionate about something and you have endless information about the subject.
Someone who’s passionate and excited about something can talk and talk for hours without stopping. Ever met someone who just go on and on about a subject they’re really into? You’ll notice they never run out of things to say. They know almost everything about the subject.
And if you’re doing something exciting in your life, you can talk about it with excitement and enthusiasm. And your mind will keep working and finding out things you could say and explore.
You could talk about your life openly and make the girl you’re talking to drawn to you with excitement. You’ll never be boring and you won’t talk about anything boring. You don’t need to hide what you’re thinking because it’s mundane and not worth talking about.
If you have control of your life, you’ll have control of the conversation and the topics you can talk about. You can lead the interaction and take it to where you want it to go. That’s the control you want.
And even if you never run out of things to talk about, that doesn’t mean you should just talk and talk until she leaves. Let her talk and just listen to her.
Most of the time, she’ll have a ton of things to add to the conversation. Women likes to talk anyway and you should allow them where you attentively listen to them.
Listening helps you figure her out and find out things about her you’ll never know if you kept talking. It will also give you an idea what direction you should stir the conversation to.
It’s one of the simplest and easiest ways most guys ignore to never run out of things to say to a girl. If you want the conversation to flow naturally, listen. If you want to have a fun and engaging conversation with her, listen. That’s it.
If you don’t know how to listen, all the advanced conversation techniques you’ll learn will become almost useless when you need them the most.