If you’re not meeting women… then you’re simply not putting yourself out there. You’re not going out. And you’re not interacting with people other than your regular peers.
Here’s what I think: You probably already know some good ways to introduce new women into your life, right?
Like going online… talking to strangers (cold approaching them)… meeting women through friends (or your social circle)… meeting women through a common activity (gym, cooking class)… and some other creative ways (like using your cute dog to make women notice).
But how do you really…
meet and connect with a woman?
First… you make her aware of your existence. And you start talking.
You start a conversation with her that leads to something good. Perhaps… to a longer and intimate conversation in the near future (or a few minutes later).
Then you just repeat the whole thing with the next one until you find what you’re looking for (if you’re looking for something specific, that is). And it goes on and on.
Sounds simple, right?
It just takes some time and effort on your part like most things in life worth doing.
If you’re already doing some of the ways mentioned above on how to meet women. You already got one foot in the door. Maybe it’s already part of your daily activity. Then the opportunity is there.
Here’s what you do:
If you’re always online, chances are, you’re already signed-up to some social networking sites and you’re sharing stuffs with friends you already know. If not, why not go sign-up and join some dating sites as well.
Now, you just need to find a “sure-fire” way using what you’re already doing to meet some new women online.
And, it’s all about going outside your comfort zone.
Expanding your horizon
If you’re always out and you always get to see cute girls around you, it’s very uncomfortable walking up to them and saying ‘hi’ out of nowhere. That’s almost unthinkable to any guy who haven’t done it before.
That’s something outside your comfort zone.
That’s something you don’t usually do.
So the trick is making it the “usual” thing you do.
That’s the “secret”.
Always be meeting women
Be prepared for it and be ready for it. Anytime… anywhere… whatever you’re doing and more importantly… be competent at it.
And this brings us full circle, because the more you do it, the more competent you’ll get.
You’ve heard it before… competence and confidence are related, they’re family, they could actually be twins.
Have competence in the beginning. Actually, have competence even before the actual task of meeting women.
Start with your preparation
Groom yourself and make yourself handsome even if you don’t plan on going out that day. Someone could come over unannounced and meet you for the first time. You don’t want that all important first impression to be anything but good, do you?
This also applies online. How you present yourself in your online profile and what you say in your messages says a lot about you. So, be sure it’s well crafted and thought of.
Then you wanna get your conversation skills in tip-top shape, if they’re not already. Why? Because nothing will happen if you can’t hold your own in the exchange of words. You’ll want to be leading the conversation to where you want it to go. And keep things interesting for the both of you.
You want to move things along its proper course, and that requires the knowledge of how attraction works. It’s crucial if you ever want women to give you a chance to get to know them.
The good news is, everything can be learned. Learning materials on almost every aspect of meeting and dating women are already available.
All that you need to do… is decide to get started.
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