Getting a girl to kiss you is at the peak of what you can do physically while you’re in a comfort-building location. It’s not that hard, and actually feels natural for guys who’ve done it dozens of times before.

They can recognize when a girl wants to kiss them and go in for the kiss. And they can make the girl want to kiss them like it was meant to happen. If you want to know how it’s done, get closer and keep reading.

First, you gotta make sure you’re in a place where it’s alright for her to kiss you. Some girls are uncomfortable kissing publicly, especially when their friends can see them kissing a guy she just met.

They don’t want to be publicly labelled as “easy”, or worse, a slut.

So, isolate her and lead her someplace where she can get comfortable and open to physical escalation. And yeah, remember to keep your mouth healthy — you don’t want her pulling back on the last second, inches before she’s about to touch lips with yours.

Start off with light touches to make her get used to your touch, if you haven’t done so already. This makes it natural for her to get close to you physically and breaks the touch barrier so it doesn’t get uncomfortable when going in for the kiss.

And, you can’t just jump in straight for the kiss, usually, without first initiating other forms of physical contact with her. Your touches should be slow and steadily increasing in intimacy until you reach the kissing part.

Make sure you calibrate your touches to how she responds. When she resists, back up a little and try again a few minutes later as you continue to attract the girl and build comfort with her.

When you feel she’s ready to take the next step, look at her eyes and then her lips. You can use the triangulation method over and over until she can’t help be notice. All you have to do then is wait until she gets the hint and wants to kiss you.

If she leans away, don’t chase her, instead lean away the moment she does. You may need to build some more comfort and trust before you attempt another kiss invitation. But if she went in, and you kissed successfully, we’ll… what you do next is up to you.