Category: Seduction & Sex

How To Escalate With Women

You should always try to escalate with women.

That’s the rule you should abide if you want to make something happen with her.

Whether it’s emotional or physical. If you want to move things forward, don’t stop the escalation process.

That could only by a problem if you don’t know how to escalate with women or, you worry and fear she’ll reject your moves when you try it on her.

Well, I gotta tell you, that would only matter if you make it a big deal.

If you continue to escalate with her like it’s the most natural thing in the world, she’ll go along with you and enjoy the ride, too.

Women, for one thing, enjoys the company of a confident man who knows what he’s doing. And on the other, rationalizes things that happens to her — if it’s good — as something that’s “meant to be”.

But if you don’t know the right way to escalate with women, the heavens won’t be of any help. You’re on your own there, buddy.

So if you want to properly escalate with a girl, do it as early as you can.

Make her feel comfortable with your touch, so she’ll relax when you get physical with her. And when you go pushing her boundaries.

You can do just that on the first handshake.

Hold it a little bit longer than usual while looking directly at her eyes. And after that, see how she responds to your other attempts to be sexual.

Have fun with it.

Use your voice, change it’s tone, pitch and frequency. And properly utilize your attractive body language and see how she reacts. When you start out like this, you’ll immediately know if the girl is open sexually.

And you can decide what to do next, much faster than if you delayed and waited for the right time.

Of course, you want to set the right mood for what’s to come. That means, letting her know you want her. You don’t want to hide your interests if you want to progress with her.

Anyway, again, just have fun with it.

Escalate faster than you ever think you can and find the limits only the most confident man could. But don’t forget to observe how she reacts. Only with that you can find the right balance when you move things forward.

How To Talk Women Into Bed

It feels great to be able to bed women easily, isn’t it?

And even better if you can talk women into bed no matter how hot and beautiful she is. Once you know the path that leads to her bedroom it doesn’t matter if she’s a super model or your next door cutie.

If you know what to say to women to get them riled up with excitement and ride with you all the way, it wouldn’t matter if you’re not rich or good looking. You’ll have lots of women while leaving other guys with scraps.

Now. Here’s the thing, the way to her doorway can be found in what gets her imagination and emotions stimulated.

Think about it: You want to create a feeling of intense passion inside of her. And to do that you have to know how to lead her imagination.

You see, once you can capture a woman’s imagination, you’ll get to influence her emotions and that leads to… guess what? Her bedroom.

Ever wonder why women read all kinds of romance novels?

They consume all that stuff like apple pie that it outsells every other genre of fiction in the known universe. And it’s all so she can experience her imagination and emotion get stimulated.

If you want to master attracting women, focus on feelings when you talk to her.

You have to hit her emotion whenever you talk to her about something. If you can get her in a emotional state where you can easily lead her to do things with you…

… you just got the keys to the kingdom.

And to do that, watch and observe how you use your language. You should be able to appeal to her fantasy and imagination like romance novels does to her.

She have to be in a certain state where she feels comfort and desire around you. Being able to generate those states comes from going through each step of the attraction process.

That involves a lot of bringing into her good emotions and linking it to you. If you can do that, you can talk any woman into bed easily — what most guys only dreams about doing.

How to Kiss a Girl

Going in for the kiss can be scary when you haven’t done it enough.

You get nervous and make a big deal out of it that it starts to show in the way you attempt to kiss her. And that’s a no-no when you’re going in for the kiss.

You should always be in control and confident when you want to kiss a girl.

It’s just like when you’re starting out to meet women, you didn’t know what to do at first but as soon as you get some interactions under your belt, you start to become quite proficient at it.

Some guys talk and talk, and try to wait out for the right time to kiss a girl. Though there’s the risk of getting rejected when you go for the kiss, it’s how you deal with it that makes it possible to get the kiss no matter how many times she resists.

So, don’t wait for the “perfect moment” to kiss the girl before you actually try and lunge in for the kiss. There’s no such thing and it will never come.

And if you hold it out until the last moment, you never know what could happen.

Why not go in for the kiss whenever you want to?

That’s shows confidence and total command of being a total badass with women. Even if she’s not yet ready, she’ll respect you for simply trying and not running.

Of course, to make her ready to receive your kiss, you should have already made some form of physical contact with her. Warm her up. Touched her arms, hands, even her hair when she’s talking.

This will lead to her becoming aware and comfortable of your touch. And as you increase the level of intimacy with each and every touch, you’ll notice when…

she’s ready to be kissed.

If you make your touches longer, you’re holding her hand and she’s okay with it, you’re getting closer when she’s already “kissable”.

You can make your move right there when you stop talking and look into her eyes and lips. If she doesn’t feel any discomfort, you can go in for the kiss, slowly.

But if she turns away, you need to set the sexual vibe and escalate your touches.

Get more intimate, get closer, more intense eye contact and talk in a smooth, deeper voice. Then you can try again, and see if she reciprocates.

Be sure not to force anything on the girl.

It will only make things more uncomfortable with her and you’ll end up not getting the kiss. Or worst, you’ll end up alone. If she still doesn’t kiss you, regroup and try again later.

How to Make a Woman Horny

If you wanna make a woman horny, you gotta know what turns her on.

Understand her mind, so you can unlock the keys to her body. Though your favorite porn movie won’t do the trick for her like it does for you, she should also have something that puts her in the mood.

Think back and remember what she likes, what’s in her book shelf and what she likes to watch to get her warm on the inside. If you find something good, use the ideas you’ll find there to make your woman horny.

Make her think about sex.

And you can do that using visuals in her mind. You can talk to her about sexual topics in general to get things started. You can get inspirations from magazines she likes to read and discuss it without seemingly wanting to get some.

Maybe there’s a new position you haven’t tried before that looks kinda fun to do. Or some other tips to make her scream with pleasure. Again, come from the mindset of improving your sex life together, and she’ll be impressed and steamy by the end of the conversation.

Even if you can’t find a sex topic to talk about, if you’re creative enough, you can easily make any small talk sexy anytime. You can slowly plant seeds in her mind throughout the day, from morning until the sun sets and the mood is right.

You can say things to her in the morning to make her feel good, leave notes, and call her when she’s at work to make her anticipate something good when she gets home. Make it an unexpected surprise so she’ll appreciate it more.

A well thought of atmosphere when she gets home will surely set the mood for her.

Prepare some sexy movies to watch together, a hot bath, dinner with a good bottle of wine, or even some sexy lingerie.

You want to invade all her senses with sexy and creative ways as you try to do sexy things together. Don’t just focus on one, when you have all senses working together, it becomes much more exciting and pleasurable for her.

It will also help her to relax and be comfortable.

And when she’s relaxed and ready, she’ll be in alignment to be horny and free to go there herself without any more help. If she’ll like all the other girls, she’ll love the feeling.

Because girls love sex as much as guys do.

Sometimes you only need to do very little to make a woman horny. Even just your presence is good enough to get things going — if you’re oozing with sexy confidence women can’t resist.

How To Get A One Night Stand

Men love sex. And women do, too.

But guys like it better when there’s no string attached and it happens just hours after meeting the girl. In some cultures, getting a one night stand is easier where women are more open to sex compared to others where women are more reserved.

If you’re in a place where you can easily get one night stands, then just be ready for some good times. Still, it depends on the girl you try it on and, your level of attraction skill to get two complete strangers to share a bed together within the night.

Well, the most straightforward thing to do is to go find a place where women who will go home with guys can be found. This can either be your local nightclub or someone else’s party where guys mingle and women giggle.

To find a girl you want to have a one night stand with, look for someone having a fun night — more like a free spirit in an adventure as she socialize with other women and talk to other guys.

You’ll know she’s open to sexual encounter by the way she clothes herself.

Most of the time, she’ll be showing lots of skin to attract potential mates. You can find her with friends — if you want to challenge yourself — or she could be alone waiting for an interesting guy to talk to her.

Either way, you gotta choose the girl who’s willing to have a one night stand, or your approach will be for nothing. No matter how good you are at attracting women.

Ladies who are older and fun may be more open to good adventures and are better choices.

When you’ve chosen your target, you then make your approach with confidence thinking yourself as the prize to be won over by women. Use your conversation skills to keep the conversation flowing and taking it to where you want to go.

As you’re making her feel comfortable, find out if she has other things to do the next day so you’ll know how to handle things later.

Get information that will help you close the deal. At the same time getting physically close to her with your teases and flirting that won’t be mistaken as friendly.

Remain confident as you imply a possible one night stand to her. Don’t say it directly. Instead, let her think that it’s exactly what you want without seeming desperate whether she gives it to you or not.

Just have fun and keep things moving forward. Make her feel good and attractive as you try to close the deal. When you pick a place, you can either go somewhere neutral or to one of either your place or hers.

When it’s all done, be sure to make her feel good and give her a great time. Make her want to come back for another encounter by giving her pleasure she won’t ever forget. Be sure to get her number to keep the lines open but make her wonder if you’d call.

How to Arouse a Woman

If you want to get into hot-steaming sex with a woman, you gotta know how to arouse her first so she’s ready to receive and give some good, fun times together.

While you never know what some women want to get things going, you gotta try and find out what works to get her hot and bothered. Though, some like to start hard and rough, there are others who wants to start slow, light and just right.

Of course, you should know how to attract women first before you even get the chance to arouse her. If you know the drill, you can make things happen quickly and easily as you make her desire you like crazy.

And confidence is always a major factor in that.

Either way, your “confident mode” should always be on whether your first approaching her or you’re done for the night. Show it in how you move and how sharp you look.

It’s the first thing she sees and it’s the first thing you turn on to get her aroused.

You don’t have to look like a hip fashion model either, just dress well and stay fit and keep yourself clean. There should be no problem getting women to look at you and get close to you.

And when she’s close, you can easily find out what excites her. Whether it’s talking dirty or licking some parts of her body. You have to discover what fancies her pants with the time you have with her.

Some like to hear romantic poems while others wants you to be forceful. Whatever it is, once you find out, things should start getting steamy and smoking.

Find areas in her body where she’s sensitive to the touch.

These are often times the ones that go untouched and ignored instead of going straight to her sexual parts. Use light kisses and your tongue to get her wild and aroused. And if you eliminate one of her senses, the others will heighten.

To make her more sensitive to your touches, cover her eyes with a blindfold as the things  you do to her multiplies its effect tons of times. This will drive the woman to new depths of arousal and excitement she may have never felt before.

Go for the Kiss

Some guys make going for the kiss a big deal and get nervous and screw it up without getting to kiss the girl. When you feel the time is ripe, just go for the kiss and and enjoy the moment and the pleasure it gives.

You should be able to read the body language of the girl you want to kiss, and should have just warmed her up before you attempt to go in head first. If you haven’t touch her even just a little and you go for the kiss, it will just be awkward.

Like after a good date and all you did was talk, no touching, and you took her home. She’s at her door, and you don’t know whether to go for the kiss or not. Most of the time, she won’t let you kiss her since she was not yet comfortable to your touches.

And it’s better to have kissed her before you took her home, so there’s none of that awkward moment right in front of her door.

Create the situation where you’re able to go for the kiss, and then watch the signs so you’ll know when you can pull the trigger and make your move.

What you want to look for are signs of interest coming from her so there’s less chance of her pulling away.

When the time comes, just go for the kiss.

Don’t ask for permission whatsoever. Look her in the eyes and her lips for a couple and seconds and then kiss her. If she pulls back, don’t make a fuss about it, just try again a few minutes later.

This shows you got the confidence and persistence to get what you want. She’ll respect you and be attracted to you more. Just stay relaxed and comfortable as you enjoy the experience.

You can make the kiss short or long, it’s up to you.

But you don’t have to rush things. Don’t force her to do anything against her will. If you’re going too fast for her, slow it down a notch.

How to Get a Girl to Kiss You

Getting a girl to kiss you is at the peak of what you can do physically while you’re in a comfort-building location. It’s not that hard, and actually feels natural for guys who’ve done it dozens of times before.

They can recognize when a girl wants to kiss them and go in for the kiss. And they can make the girl want to kiss them like it was meant to happen. If you want to know how it’s done, get closer and keep reading.

First, you gotta make sure you’re in a place where it’s alright for her to kiss you. Some girls are uncomfortable kissing publicly, especially when their friends can see them kissing a guy she just met.

They don’t want to be publicly labelled as “easy”, or worse, a slut.

So, isolate her and lead her someplace where she can get comfortable and open to physical escalation. And yeah, remember to keep your mouth healthy — you don’t want her pulling back on the last second, inches before she’s about to touch lips with yours.

Start off with light touches to make her get used to your touch, if you haven’t done so already. This makes it natural for her to get close to you physically and breaks the touch barrier so it doesn’t get uncomfortable when going in for the kiss.

And, you can’t just jump in straight for the kiss, usually, without first initiating other forms of physical contact with her. Your touches should be slow and steadily increasing in intimacy until you reach the kissing part.

Make sure you calibrate your touches to how she responds. When she resists, back up a little and try again a few minutes later as you continue to attract the girl and build comfort with her.

When you feel she’s ready to take the next step, look at her eyes and then her lips. You can use the triangulation method over and over until she can’t help be notice. All you have to do then is wait until she gets the hint and wants to kiss you.

If she leans away, don’t chase her, instead lean away the moment she does. You may need to build some more comfort and trust before you attempt another kiss invitation. But if she went in, and you kissed successfully, we’ll… what you do next is up to you.

How to Seduce a Woman

Seducing a woman doesn’t mean tricking her to do things with you, rather, it’s about letting her make the decision for herself to be with you so she can experience something good and exciting and fun.

You can learn the art of seduction by yourself, of course, but it’ll be much faster and easier if you can have someone guide you on how to seduce women. Though both takes time and work, having clear goals and different levels of difficulties to challenge is to your advantage.

Doesn’t really matter if you’re physically attractive or not, though it’s important how you present yourself to the ladies, if you practice and continue to learn the art of seduction, you’ll get better eventually.

So for starters, you want to have a positive vibe emanating from deep within. You don’t need a strong presence as you start, but you need to develop a good way to make yourself stand out when you want to.

This will make most women open up to you and easily approachable. Having a man who’s completely in charge of himself and still know how to have good fun is a turn on for women. Just the confidence you have is enough to break their barriers and let you in.

There’s one thing you can’t deny, if you want to seduce a woman, you have to understand her and know what she wants. This will allow you to get inside her mind and understand her on a deeper level than most men are capable of.

You’ll also know how to show your strengths and increase your projected value, making you an essential part of her being. Your social status and intrinsic value will intrigue most beautiful women if you don’t pay attention to them.

If you learn to act normally and comfortably without showing signs of over-interest, you will make seducing the really hot women simple and predictable. Same goes, once you know the ins and outs and the steps to attract them.

What Turns Women On

Knowing what turns women on can be the difference between getting ignored and getting a kiss from the girl you want to attract. It’s not always the opposite of what turns women off, there are also those things in between that’s subtle and barely noticeable to the naked eye.

But, if you know what attracts women to men, you’ll have a general idea of what exactly turns women on they won’t be able to stop themselves from getting their hands on you. Like confidence, you already know it’s a major turn on for all women.

That’s a universal truth.

It’s in the way you move, the way you talk, and the way you handle things. If you can radiate confidence in everything little thing you do, the women around you will light up like light bulbs directly powered by a nuclear reactor.

No. That’s not an exaggeration, either.

Here’s what you do: Whatever you’re doing, be relaxed and release any tension you have. Don’t be uptight. Instead, be comfortable and really enjoying it.

This will give her the impression that you’re a capable and a confident man who knows exactly what he’s doing. In turn, she’ll also be relaxed and trust you and will start to let loose.

Now, every girl is different, and even with the same girl, what you tried before that works may not be able to turn her on another time and situation. So watch her response and pay attention to her reactions and behaviour to what you’re doing.

That goes for any woman you meet and attract. Even at the early stages of the interaction, knowing and pushing for the limit will give an idea of how for to take things. Some girls are turned on by certain types of humor while most can’t stand it.

Though, there’s a kind of humor that turns women on, you’ll have to get good at using it to make women laugh and turned on most of the time.

And you have to keep going at it, you can’t stop being confident and funny. You have to build it up and stack what turns women on in your favor. That only happens if you keep improving yourself and continue to learn about the art of attraction.

How to Create Sexual Tension

If you want your interaction with a girl to lead to sex, you’ll want to know how to create sexual tension. It’s what makes women think about you, do crazy things without judgement, and want to sleep with you.

It’s the anticipation you create to make them look at you with desire. It’s how you make them hungry for you, mouth-watering and all.

If you can create that kind of sexual tension where the girl looks at you with desire, you don’t have to put any work in to have sex with her. Pretty much how some girls see rock stars.

So how do you create sexual tension? Well, have your bases covered first. Be confident, be alpha, be a man. You have to be someone that’s worth way more than a homeless dude.

Once you’ve got that handled, creating sexual tension will become easier. You’ll only need to do little things to get big results like… using your eyes.

Eye contact, used the right way, can create massive sexual tension within a girl. If you look at a girl in a way that gives her some hint of sexual interests using your gestures and expressions, you’ll easily get a positive response.

Use this sexual eye contact whenever you want to create sexual tension. It may take a lot of practice at first, but it definitely works.

Be sure you’re having fun and enjoying yourself. It’s the playful way you use it to tease her and make the sexual tension rise. Don’t try too hard if you don’t want to come across as someone weird.

Just be careful with your teases. You don’t want to be hurtful or go too far that it will come bite you in the ass.

Use push-pull with your teasing and flirting. Do this if you want to make her chase you. Done a couple of times and she won’t be able to help herself but be all over you.

One thing you have to remember, though.

If you’re not in the right location to release the tension, don’t make the mistake of letting it disappear. Because once it’s gone, it becomes harder and longer to get the sexual tension back.

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