If you want to successfully approach and meet more women, you gotta stand out from the crowd so she can take notice of you. And, who knows, maybe she’s one of the few who knows what she wants and approaches you herself.
But for that to happen, you have to know how to make women notice you first.
You have to get her attention and make her remember you more than any other guy she’d met before. If you know how to make use of first impressions, then you’re already better at getting noticed than everybody else out there.
The game is already half-won when you can project your confidence across the room like James Bond. The sense of being in control, never in any rush, maintains eye contact, and all the other ways you can show your “killer confidence”.
When you have that, it’s almost impossible for women not to notice you. And you’ll notice them noticing you as you improve your self-confidence and make yourself interesting.
After you’ve open a conversation with her, you better have something interesting to talk about using your great conversation skills and repertoire to keep the conversation flowing.
You gotta back up your confidence with an interesting, attractive personality. Read some books, pursue a passion you’ve always wanted to do, and invest in yourself so you don’t show up empty handed when a woman of high class ends up in front of you.
We tend to get along with other like us, and if you’re a high value guy, high value women will gravitate towards you when they notice you. It’s just how the universe works.
Though you can fake your initial “perceived” value to make it higher, it won’t be enough to sustain a long-term relationship.
She’ll test and figure out if you’re really in control of your life, or just faking it. And she’ll do this as you’re talking to her for the first time. She’ll intimidate you, and try to control you and the interaction.
If you can clearly communicate to her that you’re different from all the other guys — using your body language, your conversation skills — she’ll show respect and take notice of you. She’ll be attracted to you and you can then take the next step.